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User Topic: Attention all bus riders!
ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, April 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Since I'm a female just barely under the age of 55, I was required to get a pregnancy test before the surgery I had last week. I tried to tell them about the bus and how I've been riding for... oh... about 3 years now, and that seriously -- barring a true, honest-to-God, call the Vatican, miracle -- there was no reason for the test. At. All. but i had to get it done anyway...

No miracle there

Still on the bus and expect to be for a long, long while

[This message edited by ISPIFFD at 11:24 AM, April 23rd (Wednesday)]


Me: BW (55)
Him: WH (62)
7/14/11 - Divorced

Posts: 1876 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: another world
Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, April 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay, I'm on the germ-free bus! Technically still married, but no way in hell am I getting on that ride again. I never did like using public facilities.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1878 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
newnormal
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Member # 21925
Default  Posted: 10:53 AM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Marco


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


Posts: 1033 | Registered: Dec 2008
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo!!!!!!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5327 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been on this bus for 4 years and 1 month. Any other long timers?


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3427 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm not sure what the exact date of my last pre-bus excursion was, but it'll be two years for me in a couple of weeks.

Posts: 1756 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Six years and seven days.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17589 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
BrokenDaisy
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Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Few days short of two and a half years


Me BxW, him SA NPD WxH
1 wonderful toddler - sole legal custody to me and supervised visitation to xwh.
DDay 01/2012
10/2013 Finally Divorced!!

Posts: 266 | Registered: Oct 2012
MinorBee
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Somewhere around 8 years here.


previously married for 20 years
DDays: which time?, OW's which one?

Posts: 457 | Registered: Jan 2008
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 11:05 PM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

3 years and 1 month. Damn, that is a long time


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1781 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 11:18 PM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Over 2 years here.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5327 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
worried_lady
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Default  Posted: 11:39 PM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Way too long!!


Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over it became a butterfly.

Posts: 464 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Texas
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 1:09 AM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

About a month shy of three years.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2394 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
strad
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm a new rider. Howdy.


Me: BW, 49
WH, 51
son, 18
d-day 10/1/13
married 26 years
Divorced 3/21/14

Posts: 36 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: United States
brokeninfl
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Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

5 year rider. Someone get me a plaque. I deserve a "reserved" seat.

And pass the margaritas!


"On the other side of fear lies freedom"

Me - 36 BS
Him - doesn't matter
2 DS
DD 11/08
Divorced.


Posts: 1074 | Registered: Dec 2008
7yrsflushed
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Member # 32258
Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A little over a year later and i'm still on the bus. 2 years...pass the bourbon!


D-day 5/24/11
BH = Me
2 children
The first true sense of calm I felt in YEARS was when I filed for D...
Divorced 9/2/14 and loving life!

Posts: 1914 | Registered: May 2011 | From: VA
LineInTheSand
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Default  Posted: 12:31 AM, June 25th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Closest I got was with Steve 15 months ago. But he was wiener-withholding. He would do everything BUT that (including things that IMHO should happen MUCH later) because "intercourse changes things."


HOLD UP!!! I'm confused. Wouldn't your "actions" still disqualify you from riding the bus?? Or does it have to be actual intercourse?

Somebody please explain the exact qualifications necessary to ride the bus. Thank you!!

(I might be on the bus sooner than I thought. )


Posts: 495 | Registered: Jul 2008
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, June 25th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

3 plus years for me.


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2726 | Registered: Jan 2010
Softcentre
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Default  Posted: 12:35 PM, June 25th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Only just over a year for me


Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' likes strong but broken OW
OW - EA - 'Holy Chick'
COW - Suspected EA/PA 'The Ambassador'
COW - Susp EA 'The Baker'
COW - EA/PA 'Fat Bottomed Girl'
COW - Susp EA 'MiniMe'

Posts: 1075 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
luv2swim
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Default  Posted: 2:56 AM, June 29th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hmm... riding that bus back seat for what seemed like a very VERY long time.

But now, I have decided that I am no longer a "Bus" rider. I am now driving my own motor home!

I do remain open to the possibility of sharing this global adventure drive with a romantically incline other. However, counting the weeks, months, and finally years of "Bus riding" kind of depresses me. So, I like the thought of being independent. Open to possibilities. And, not missing a second of life by and by. It is a different focus. A zest for full life that is open to opportunities and adventures. BUT, not so focused on my bus seat.

Know what I mean "Bus riders"?

[This message edited by luv2swim at 2:58 AM, June 29th (Sunday)]


Me: BS
Him: NPD WS
Married 24 years
incredible kids
D day: 2006 ... he left to live with OW.
Divorced: 2009
WS + OW: Married 2011

Posts: 356 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: US
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