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User Topic: Attention all bus riders!
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, June 29th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


But now, I have decided that I am no longer a "Bus" rider. I am now driving my own motor home!

I do remain open to the possibility of sharing this global adventure drive with a romantically incline other. However, counting the weeks, months, and finally years of "Bus riding" kind of depresses me. So, I like the thought of being independent. Open to possibilities. And, not missing a second of life by and by. It is a different focus. A zest for full life that is open to opportunities and adventures. BUT, not so focused on my bus seat.

Know what I mean "Bus riders"?

I get it. You want to lead this excursion. The bus and a your friends can follow you to different adventures and party when we arrive. When you find that special someone the party bus will approve, and start taking a different path.

About this motorhome, what's it like? Pics?

I had a pop up for years. I love camping, as long as I'm not sleeping on the ground and have ac.

Hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5528 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
luv2swim
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Default  Posted: 1:39 AM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The motorhome is figurative. In reality, it manifests as a "GO FOR THE GUSTO" lifestyle and is driven internally.

Over the past few years, the "Motorhome" has often taken the form of an airline tix and an airport rental car, with a destination... and a very loose route. I will certainly head off the beaten path to experience the possibilities along the way.

The "Motorhome" has also taken the form of job offerings in remote and unusual locations, that open up experiences I would not have had if I had stayed married. But too, the "Motorhome" often takes me out of my comfort zone. You know... on to unexplored roads that sometimes have "Hazards Ahead" signs! Basically, the "Motorhome" concept pushes me out of my comfort zone, to live a life I would LIKE to live, but sometimes need that extra little push to actually step into. I guess, for me, it is a mindset that places me into the drivers seat ... and the journey is EXCITING! I would like to share it with a beloved other (that is not a dog!), but if this fella and I do not meet-up, well ... I sure am having a wonderful adventure!


Me: BS
Him: NPD WS
Married 24 years
incredible kids
D day: 2006 ... he left to live with OW.
Divorced: 2009
WS + OW: Married 2011

Posts: 357 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: US
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:25 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like your motorhome.... Don't forget to share your adventures!!

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5528 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
traicionada
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Default  Posted: 6:10 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There's a sense of pride that comes from ridding this bus Yup! Getting off it wouldn't take that much effort but I want more and deserve it so I'll continue to sit here and enjoy the ride


Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

Posts: 3351 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas
curiouswiz
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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my. More than four years on the bus and I think I'm a stowaway. I didn't buy the ticket. Sometimes it hurts but most days I'm fine with it. I want to be held close. I want whispers in my ear. I want a snuggle into my neck.

Okay! Better stop this crap now! ahahahahahaaa

Seriously; I just want a good friend and let a relationship blossom. Is that too much to ask?


God bless us, everyone.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Time for a holiday party on the bus!

What do you think of the new paint job?

Some snacks

A little refreshment

poofed the drink - too darn big

Who's got the entertainment?

[This message edited by nowiknow23 at 7:38 AM, July 12th (Saturday)]


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 11:27 PM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yawnnnnnn, and stretching. I just woke up. Where are the drinks? When did the bus get painted???
Ahhhh, a Margarita or 3 would really hit the spot now!
Wow, the company and scenery are spectacular!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

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Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 3:25 AM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm a little nervous. When I pulled up SI just now, the Google Ad at the top was advertising for bus drivers. Does this mean we are just careening down the highway with no driver?


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1761 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
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Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mmmmmm, snacks look great! I'll have some of everything EXCEPT that pasta....I'm skeered of that! Love the new paint job!!

Party on!


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:39 AM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When I pulled up SI just now, the Google Ad at the top was advertising for bus drivers. Does this mean we are just careening down the highway with no driver?

SAZ? You still at the wheel, honey?


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A little over 2.5 years on the bus now, and although it's frustrating at times, I'm good with it. It is a lot less complicated, that's for sure.


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, August 30th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A little over 2.5 years on the bus now, and although it's frustrating at times,
I don't Even want to calculate how many years I've been riding the bus! I have found out when it is more frustrating...when there's a person in your life whom you think would be nice!

My doc says a BOB can take care of sex, but it doesn't always work that way....

I'd really like OFF this bus! In the meantime, though, I had to rescue this thread from page 14!!! Yowza! We need a new driver.


Posts: 1322 | Registered: Aug 2010
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, August 30th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How do you know you've been on the bus too long?

When reviewing this thread and reading "getting off" the bus makes you snicker like Beavis and Butthead...


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5906 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, August 30th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have NO idea what you're talking about cg.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, August 30th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).

Posts: 846 | Registered: Nov 2012
shiloe
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, August 30th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

.....Sigh......

Polo


But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 54
Cheater -54
Married 26 yrs
DD - 21 DD -19 DS-17
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA with yet another married ho-worker. Kicked h

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9years
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Default  Posted: 1:10 AM, September 1st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like the driver should start taking the scenic route! LOL. If not I'll drive, but I stop lots, ya know for pictures, bathroom breaks etc


Just say yes to the rest

Posts: 1929 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: BC, Canada
Riskybusiness
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Default  Posted: 1:27 AM, September 1st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am on the bus. 1 year now.
*sigh. Longest stint since ex and I began at age 16!
No end in sight, and I am currently ok with that.


Me-39
HeeHaw(EX)
OW SmokyHo
Married 21 years
DD-19, DD-17, DS-15, DD-11
DIVORCED

Rejoice in hope, persevere in tribulation, be devoted to prayer. Romans 12:12


Posts: 86 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Pacific Northwest
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, September 1st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

9years,

Any driver that stops for bathroom breaks is ok with me.

Marco!!!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5528 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, September 3rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just passed the 3 year mark.

I don't even have a relationship with BOB anymore.

I think I need a really big drink.


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

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