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User Topic: Attention all bus riders!
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, May 16th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Southern Gal -

There's a really great joke in there somewhere about the South rising again, but I'm too undercaffeinated to pull it out.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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SouthernGal
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, May 16th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK ... Actually it would seem that you can only buy a BOB if you can prove that the South can't rise again. heehee

It is pretty crazy. In fact you know it is crazy because it was odd enough to be mentioned in a British tabloid. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1342821/Sex-toy-drive-open-Alabama-finding-loophole-law.html


BS (Me) XWH (him) M nearly 16 yrs
1 DD (teens)
D-day #1 12/09, #2 2/10
Divorced 10/6/10

Posts: 3862 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The Deep (Fried) South
1Kick at the Cat
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Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, May 16th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK ... Actually it would seem that you can only buy a BOB if you can prove that the South can't rise again. heehee

LOL LOL LOL Oh Geez, what a comeback! I literally laughed so hard, tears ran down my leg!!!!!!!


Before you know it, all this pain will be as useless as the G in Lasagna. 1Kick@Cat

Posts: 475 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Florida, U.S.A.
TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, May 17th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((BUGgers and BOBbers)))))


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21575 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
Harriet
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Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, May 18th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just my luck that my daugter is currently awaiting a package from Amazon!


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 565 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, May 24th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So.....

Tonight the bus stopped..... But despite a valiant effort from other party to coax me off it I decided to stay on. Wasn't the right stop for me I don't think.

That's 2 bus stops I've stayed on for this year now......

Sitting back down for now maybe I'll get some slippers and settle in for a while!


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 673 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, May 24th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you recognizing that it wasn't the right stop.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, June 6th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Who's driving the bus at the moment?

Whoever it is PEASE take it easy over the bumps, I keep almost falling off!

Twice over the weekend when I was away! Actually one of them I wouldn't have minded falling off for but hey ho....... My mate thinks I'm dull for that one! LOL

[This message edited by foreverempty at 10:01 AM, June 6th (Wednesday)]


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

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LineInTheSand
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, July 28th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Polo!"

Is this one-way? Or round trip? The scenery looks familiar.

Been on the bus for 4 years and don't see any stops in the immediate future.

I'm old-school, so unless God gifts me with a MAN(marriage), I'll be on the bus for the long haul.


I was on for three years. Got off for a fling. Just found out I know have HPV genital warts. Wish I'd stayed on the bus...


Yikes...definitely won't venture off the bus!

So who has the cheese curls??


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gma56
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Frustrated  Posted: 6:49 PM, July 28th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LITS You found this and now I'm reminded, I'm back on it.
I was on for so long and thought I was done with the tour but no, here I am again.
Damn.


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, July 28th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

gma - Sorry you're back on the bus. Does that mean Sad's out of a job again?


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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soverybetrayed
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Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, July 28th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So do we count all the times we were on the bus DURING our marriage? You can count those stops on two hands.Half the time is wasn't worth getting dirty over. I have currently been on the bus since summer 2010 and have no plans to make any stops for quite awhile.

Was separated for a year and no stops and now divorced for 5 days and still not planning on stopping.

But would love to have a Pina Coloda if you have one.


Me-53
DDay 10/16/2010 DDay2 5/22/2011
Divorced 8/23/2012
I will get stronger and better but no matter where he goes, there he is....

Posts: 1220 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Texas
gma56
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, July 28th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No SAD can keep it ! I so don't want to be here....it's been a rough summer for me. Too many losses and stress.
I'll take a corner to lick my wounds. Sure wish he would change his mind but not hopeful. I'll be here for a long ride again so will have time to take many turns driving AGAIN.
gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, July 28th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo!

Moved out in April 2011, might have had one stupid evening with WH sometime in June. So, a year.

I have CornNuts, is there a cooler? I could use a beer.

kk


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1256 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 7:14 PM, July 28th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

gma, I'm sorry also you had to jump back on the bus, but I'll be joining you. Actually, I am okay with it. I have no interest in getting off the bus any time soon. I'm going to bring some fluffy pillows, a good long novel, and chocolate, and dig in here because I have no intention of leaving any time soon....


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15552 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, July 28th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((gma))))
Grab a drink and take a spot on the VIP bench.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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wishingitwasnt
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Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, July 28th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sigh. Polo.

This damn bus never goes anywhere interesting.



Posts: 2764 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: IA
peridot
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, July 28th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((gma)))


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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noone
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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, July 28th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DDay was this past Jan but, XSo moved a year ago next month for work so...almost a year. Funny that most of the time I'm ok with my bus ride...but there are days...


what the caterpillar believes is the end of life, the butterfly knows is just the beginning

Posts: 451 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Hell
willowiris
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, July 28th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo...going on 10 months...but I met someone. We are going nice and slow, so not sure when I'm hopping off. I love sex and all, but it's kind of a breath of fresh air to meet a man who wants to a wait a bit. He really is amazing.


D-day 09/2004
Filed for divorce 9/2006

We accept the love we think we deserve. "The Perks of Being a Wallflower."


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