Topic: nickname for OW
Member # 19258
| Posted: 1:50 PM, August 7th (Tuesday), 2012|
I always called OW by her first name. It wasn't my name though. I could tell the use of her name stung X far more than any of the crude names I came up with.
If she's married you might try calling her Mrs Lastname. A nice reminder of what a jerk she is while maintaining some dignity
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
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Posts: 8405 | Registered: Apr 2008
Member # 32847
| Posted: 7:07 PM, August 7th (Tuesday), 2012|
CFW. stands for crazy freakin whore. Saying her name still sickens me. When I talked to her BH a few weeks ago, I referred to her as "your wife". I s'pose not being able to say her name means I'm still renting her too much space in my mind. But I don't want to humanize her by calling her by her name.
Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...
Posts: 1650 | Registered: Jul 2011
Member # 36104
| Posted: 9:16 PM, August 7th (Tuesday), 2012|
So many names so little time. Taking a cue from here I called her "your whore" to my H. Ohhhh my he didn't like THAT! Truth hurts I guess.
M-12yrs Together 15 years
D'Day April 20, 2012
On the R Rollercoaster
How will see the great things ahead of us if we keep looking back at the bad things behind us?
Posts: 83 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: My heart is at the beach
Member # 35004
| Posted: 6:36 AM, August 8th (Wednesday), 2012|
Most important rule is never use her actual name. She doesn't deserve that courtesy.
Add me among those who will not say "its" name. I also made that clear to my H the one time he made that mistake. I refuse to humanize this slut.
BS - 62
FWH - 60
Married 34 years
Doing well with R
Posts: 996 | Registered: Mar 2012
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Member # 32495
| Posted: 7:13 AM, August 8th (Wednesday), 2012|
I never refer to OW by her first name - WH refers to her by her surname...
I prefer to call her 'bicycle' - well lets put it this way... she has been well and truely ridden by a lot of men!
Eat my dust - I am far too good for the likes of you!!
Posts: 26 | Registered: Jun 2011
Member # 34692
| Posted: 8:57 AM, August 8th (Wednesday), 2012|
He definitely affaired down
"your girlfriend" as others have said this one bothers him the most.
He refers to gs as "her" or "that girl" he never says her name. Could barely make himself say it on dday. Every now and then I have said its name on purpose to
see him squirm
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Me - BW
Him - FWH
DDay 10-29-11 2 month EA 1 time PA
He had ended it 10-28-11
Broke NC 12-20-11
S 12-21-11 filed D 1-4-12
R started/H moved home 2-8-12
2 wonderul boys 17 & 14
Married 19 years
Posts: 226 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Member # 36385
| Posted: 11:26 AM, August 8th (Wednesday), 2012|
I just refer to her by her name most of the time. Though I have been known to refer to her as "the b*tch" or "homewrecker" or "piece of trash" when I'm ranting to a friend.
Reconcilation attempt didn't last long...WH moved out 8/10/12
Divorcing... hoping to be done soon
Making a fantastic NB for myself and my family!
Posts: 535 | Registered: Aug 2012
Member # 35831
| Posted: 1:40 PM, August 8th (Wednesday), 2012|
PMSL at all the great references to the lower life forms but mine is a favourite that I take pleasure in it is..... Ugly c*** bitch horse teeth fish face.
My sister refers to her as granny fanny which always makes me laugh. WH just calls her IT and refers any subject abou IT is lowering the tone.
I did refer to his girlfriend several times in the beginning which gave me satisfaction from the wounded look on his face. Now it's ewwwwww you went FUGLY .
Married 11years together 14 years
EA/PA 11 weeks
OW- 49 Single Old Manipulative Whore-extended family
TT til 05/01/2012
Posts: 54 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: UK
Member # 35646
| Posted: 8:49 PM, August 8th (Wednesday), 2012|
Toilet bowl bitch (bc she is NASTY just like a toilet!) or dog-face trout
Ow: 27 (worked together)
Married 6years, 2 kids
Posts: 66 | Registered: May 2012
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Member # 26305
| Posted: 12:54 PM, August 9th (Thursday), 2012|
SIL's OW, but I call her Twunt or Twatwaffle.
Posts: 12 | Registered: Nov 2009
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Member # 32946
| Posted: 5:15 PM, August 9th (Thursday), 2012|
I call mine the bar troll
BS - 47
WS - 47
3 Kids - 26,16,15
1 Grandchild - 3
DD - 8/6/10
Don't know where I am...
Posts: 7 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Texas
Member # 34485
| Posted: 8:49 PM, August 10th (Friday), 2012|
I had to get in on this one.
The skank has fake boobs that look like glazed donuts. Fake, fake, fake
Me BS 54
Him WH 55
M 32 yrs - together 40 yrs
D-Day 12-18-11 (WH didn't want to R)
Divorced 6-21-12 Done!
If the grass is greener on the other side....water your own lawn.
Posts: 239 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Midwest
Member # 35830
| Posted: 9:00 PM, August 10th (Friday), 2012|
slimy cun+ stain.
The ugliest phrase I can imagine. If you can think of something uglier, please let me know.
Sorry. Still a little angry. ;o)
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Me: 43/ stbXH: 43 (alcoholic),
d-day5/22/12, D pending
“my goal is to always come from a place of love ...but sometimes you just have to break it down for a motherf#cker”
Posts: 170 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: midwest USA
Member # 30989
| Posted: 12:22 AM, August 11th (Saturday), 2012|
I usually refer to her by first and last name, though a profane epithet or three have crossed my lips.
X hates it most when I call her "your girlfriend."
WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke
Posts: 8322 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Member # 36234
| Posted: 3:43 PM, August 11th (Saturday), 2012|
My husband actually asked me to call her by her name! I DON'T THINK SO! I use to call her the Skank, now its Cumdumpster. THanks SI
BS Me 56
WS Him 54
Married 29 yrs
I have no idea what is going on
Posts: 123 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Virginia
Member # 33840
| Posted: 10:16 PM, August 11th (Saturday), 2012|
2 children..18 & 5
DDay 3/3/11 "EA only"
DDay 3/7/11 "yup PA"
Grasping for R...fingers.cramped.losing.grip...
Posts: 96 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: san diego
Member # 36401
| Posted: 10:21 PM, August 11th (Saturday), 2012|
It changes..the main one I call by her shortened first name or many other deragotory names. And the second girl, i just call Bitch. The men I call Bastard, asshole and by their last names. Which really does kind of suck because one if polish and his name is like 56 letters long. But i have found a sudden love of polock jokes now.
Posts: 281 | Registered: Aug 2012
Member # 36109
| Posted: 10:36 PM, August 11th (Saturday), 2012|
Love the idea of calling The Beast Mrs. ----. Good reminder that they trashed two families, not just one. I still hate the bitch with every fiber of my being, but I am starting to think she could have been any port in a storm. I like this thought b/c it makes her even more pathetic than the dumb bitch already was. He could have at least had an affair with someone awesome - it would not be as insulting.
Posts: 77 | Registered: Jul 2012
Member # 35873
| Posted: 10:39 PM, September 18th (Tuesday), 2012|
My SIL suggestion was Lot Lizard and I will have to be honest had to google that one but once I found the meaning I started using that one and because it was a company affair used the companys name The C***** Lot Lizard. Also the comment that said her Hubby's whore well I told mine wait till the kids find out about Daddy's Little Whore! I am sure that hit the spot
together 21 years
1st D-Day 4-19-10
2nd D-Day 5-3-12
married 19 years
2 kids 13-twins
Posts: 122 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Florida
Member # 35656
| Posted: 1:14 AM, September 19th (Wednesday), 2012|
A friend of mine came up with Skunt. my new personal favorite.
ME: BS 41
Him FWH 43
Married 20 years together 22 at the time.
Working thru R.
Posts: 273 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Florida
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