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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, August 7th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I always called OW by her first name. It wasn't my name though. I could tell the use of her name stung X far more than any of the crude names I came up with.

If she's married you might try calling her Mrs Lastname. A nice reminder of what a jerk she is while maintaining some dignity

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, August 7th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CFW. stands for crazy freakin whore. Saying her name still sickens me. When I talked to her BH a few weeks ago, I referred to her as "your wife". I s'pose not being able to say her name means I'm still renting her too much space in my mind. But I don't want to humanize her by calling her by her name.

Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, August 7th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So many names so little time. Taking a cue from here I called her "your whore" to my H. Ohhhh my he didn't like THAT! Truth hurts I guess.

BS-Me (48)
WH-Him (54)
M-12yrs Together 15 years
D'Day April 20, 2012
On the R Rollercoaster

How will see the great things ahead of us if we keep looking back at the bad things behind us?

Posts: 83 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: My heart is at the beach
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Default  Posted: 6:36 AM, August 8th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Most important rule is never use her actual name. She doesn't deserve that courtesy.

Add me among those who will not say "its" name. I also made that clear to my H the one time he made that mistake. I refuse to humanize this slut.

BS - 62
FWH - 60
Married 34 years
D-Day 2/12/12
Doing well with R

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Default  Posted: 7:13 AM, August 8th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I never refer to OW by her first name - WH refers to her by her surname...

I prefer to call her 'bicycle' - well lets put it this way... she has been well and truely ridden by a lot of men!

Eat my dust - I am far too good for the likes of you!!

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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, August 8th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

project pussy
He definitely affaired down

"your girlfriend" as others have said this one bothers him the most.

He refers to gs as "her" or "that girl" he never says her name. Could barely make himself say it on dday. Every now and then I have said its name on purpose to
see him squirm

[This message edited by VeilLifted at 8:58 AM, August 8th (Wednesday)]

Me - BW
Him - FWH
DDay 10-29-11 2 month EA 1 time PA
He had ended it 10-28-11
Broke NC 12-20-11
S 12-21-11 filed D 1-4-12
R started/H moved home 2-8-12
2 wonderul boys 17 & 14(now 20 & 17)
Now we have a beautiful grandson!
Married 19 years(n

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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, August 8th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just refer to her by her name most of the time. Though I have been known to refer to her as "the b*tch" or "homewrecker" or "piece of trash" when I'm ranting to a friend.

DD#1 6/14/12
DD#2 7/29/12
Reconcilation attempt didn't last long...WH moved out 8/10/12
Divorcing... hoping to be done soon
Making a fantastic NB for myself and my family!

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Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, August 8th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PMSL at all the great references to the lower life forms but mine is a favourite that I take pleasure in it is..... Ugly c*** bitch horse teeth fish face.

My sister refers to her as granny fanny which always makes me laugh. WH just calls her IT and refers any subject abou IT is lowering the tone.

I did refer to his girlfriend several times in the beginning which gave me satisfaction from the wounded look on his face. Now it's ewwwwww you went FUGLY .

BW 35
FWH 41
2DS, 1DD
Married 11years together 14 years
EA/PA 11 weeks
OW- 49 Single Old Manipulative Whore-extended family

DD 02/11/2011
TT til 05/01/2012

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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, August 8th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Toilet bowl bitch (bc she is NASTY just like a toilet!) or dog-face trout

Me: 33
Ow: 27 (worked together)
Married 6years, 2 kids

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Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, August 9th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SIL's OW, but I call her Twunt or Twatwaffle.

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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, August 9th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I call mine the bar troll

BS - 47
WS - 47
3 Kids - 26,16,15
1 Grandchild - 3
DD - 8/6/10
Don't know where I am...

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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, August 10th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had to get in on this one.


The skank has fake boobs that look like glazed donuts. Fake, fake, fake

Me BS 54
Him WH 55
M 32 yrs - together 40 yrs
Kids 0
D-Day 12-18-11 (WH didn't want to R)
Divorced 6-21-12 Done!

If the grass is greener on the other side....water your own lawn.

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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, August 10th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

slimy cun+ stain.

The ugliest phrase I can imagine. If you can think of something uglier, please let me know.

Sorry. Still a little angry. ;o)

[This message edited by riverinegypt at 9:00 PM, August 10th (Friday)]

Me: 43/ stbXH: 43 (alcoholic),
d-day5/22/12, D pending

“my goal is to always come from a place of love ...but sometimes you just have to break it down for a motherf#cker”
― RuPaul

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solus sto
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Default  Posted: 12:22 AM, August 11th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I usually refer to her by first and last name, though a profane epithet or three have crossed my lips.

X hates it most when I call her "your girlfriend."

BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, August 11th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My husband actually asked me to call her by her name! I DON'T THINK SO! I use to call her the Skank, now its Cumdumpster. THanks SI

BS Me 57
WS Him 55
Married 30 yrs
DDay 1/28/2012
I have no idea what is going on

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Default  Posted: 10:16 PM, August 11th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


2 children..18 & 5
DDay 3/3/11 "EA only"
DDay 3/7/11 "yup PA"
Grasping for R...fingers.cramped.losing.grip...

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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, August 11th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It changes..the main one I call by her shortened first name or many other deragotory names. And the second girl, i just call Bitch. The men I call Bastard, asshole and by their last names. Which really does kind of suck because one if polish and his name is like 56 letters long. But i have found a sudden love of polock jokes now.

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Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, August 11th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love the idea of calling The Beast Mrs. ----. Good reminder that they trashed two families, not just one. I still hate the bitch with every fiber of my being, but I am starting to think she could have been any port in a storm. I like this thought b/c it makes her even more pathetic than the dumb bitch already was. He could have at least had an affair with someone awesome - it would not be as insulting.

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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, September 18th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My SIL suggestion was Lot Lizard and I will have to be honest had to google that one but once I found the meaning I started using that one and because it was a company affair used the companys name The C***** Lot Lizard. Also the comment that said her Hubby's whore well I told mine wait till the kids find out about Daddy's Little Whore! I am sure that hit the spot

together 21 years
1st D-Day 4-19-10
2nd D-Day 5-3-12
married 19 years
2 kids 13-twins

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Default  Posted: 1:14 AM, September 19th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A friend of mine came up with Skunt. my new personal favorite.

ME: BS 41
Him FWH 43
Married 20 years together 22 at the time.
Working thru R.

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