Topic: nickname for OW
Member # 39667
| Posted: 8:46 PM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014|
When we are in MC, I refer to her by her first name. It takes the power away. Sometimes I refer to her as his former girlfriend.
With my friends, we refer to her as (the name we are not supposed to say on here)-faced whore (are we still allowed to say that?) or my SAfWH's former girlfriend.
Finally, my BFF I've known in good times and bad for 35 years said it all: "Every woman I know named - - - - is a hooker." It's funny, because other people have said the same thing. Lots of people have experience with women who have this name and they are not good ones.
BS - mid-40's
SAWH - mid 40's
Kids - 2 elementary school aged
Getting tons of therapy and trying to "work it out"
Posts: 910 | Registered: Jun 2013
Member # 34836
| Posted: 8:54 PM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014|
I call her "your friend".......he hates that
M 25 years
BW Me - 50's
WH Him - 60's
OW 25 years younger
D-Days too numerous to mention last D-day being 12-2-11 *OW went on fishing trip 5-21-13*
"A relationship is only made for two, but some bitches don't know how to count"
Posts: 355 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Colorado
Member # 38141
| Posted: 9:39 PM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014|
I call her the same name wh used to hide her in his phone. Bugs the hell out of him. He asked if I would use her real name once..... um, not a snowball's chance in hades that will happen.
Here and in my mind, she is chickie --- That equally annoys wh.
Should she ever have the opportunity to serve me (a very real possibility) I plan to look her in the eye and call her the nickname wh used. I mean we all know how precious those cute little nicknames are, the nickname was so special to them, shouldn't we all have the pleasure of using it?
ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure, but trying I guess.
Posts: 486 | Registered: Jan 2013
Member # 42486
| Posted: 6:57 AM, March 4th (Tuesday), 2014|
to him I too refer to her as your friend.....to me i call her bitch.I am for ever telling her to eff off in my head
cannot say her name to him..too french , too sweet a name although the name of a famous french prostitute !!!!!!that helps too......
to my friend she is called Gilbert.....i still love to call her bitch in my head , and worse...I used to be so nice once
me BS 56yr
Him WS 55yr
Married 34 years 2 sons 4 grandchildren
Posts: 133 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: France
Member # 42000
| Posted: 8:26 AM, March 4th (Tuesday), 2014|
Started off as the Skank
Now we both refer to her as The Troll
Posts: 97 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: United Kindgdon
Member # 38173
| Posted: 8:30 AM, March 4th (Tuesday), 2014|
I say "ya girl"...LOL!!
"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
Married 3 years, known 20
D-Day #1 12/30/12
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Posts: 668 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Midwest
Member # 42581
| Posted: 9:07 AM, March 4th (Tuesday), 2014|
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years
Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson
Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.
Posts: 2320 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
Member # 41575
| Posted: 10:23 AM, March 4th (Tuesday), 2014|
I usually call her douchebag, c*** or just the plain old whore.
She really is all three rolled up so I could call her the DCW?
Together 18 years
Married 7 years
Both currently in counseling
Trying to R
I am a warrior!
I will survive and thrive!
Posts: 103 | Registered: Dec 2013
Member # 37656
| Posted: 10:43 AM, March 4th (Tuesday), 2014|
Initially, called her the skank. Then skanky bitch. Now, she's the "next one he's gonna cheat on." I should call her his fiancee but we know how that's gonna end up.
I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.
Posts: 487 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Southern California
Member # 42372
| Posted: 12:46 PM, March 4th (Tuesday), 2014|
Wow! I think the thread had just about covered
ALL the bases.
When I do think about "it", and have to speak of "it", I use:
That is truly what "it" is.
But when I want to make a dig, I call "it" his "girlfriend". Never fails to get his blood boiling! :)
Posts: 364 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Florida
Member # 42621
| Posted: 1:06 PM, March 4th (Tuesday), 2014|
I gave her number that nickname in our ATT account, so if he ever has a phone conversation with her I will know right away.
Posts: 84 | Registered: Feb 2014
Member # 42170
| Posted: 1:48 PM, March 4th (Tuesday), 2014|
UglyAss Bitch from Whoretown
Desperate Dirtbag Ho
"Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth." -Unknown Wise Person
Posts: 345 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: North Carolina, United States
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Member # 42559
| Posted: 3:17 PM, March 4th (Tuesday), 2014|
Not really an OW per say but
This one escort my H used a lot, I call her the Klingon. Due to the insane amount of empty mountainous forehead she's got goin on. petaQ!
Me 33 Him 44
3yo DD, 3wko DD
A buttload of escorts for "massages" at
least 2 EAs, ACTIVELY dating on Match.com
Multiple Ddays most recent 12/13
Gonna hurt when it heals too
Posts: 14 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: The frozen north
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Member # 42669
| Posted: 9:41 PM, March 4th (Tuesday), 2014|
I refer to them as his whores. One of the OW gets the c word whore and I have heard a few refer to her by our old street name's street bicycle. She slept with 7 guys in a 2 block radius. Within less than a few months. We lived a couple doors down from her and at first he tried to make me not be friends, but be pleasant with her since we had the same group of friends. Thank goodness he put his head on straight, figured out that was ridiculous, we moved away, I'm hoping she went back to Whore Island.
Posts: 14 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Southern California
Member # 40937
| Posted: 12:31 AM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014|
We call her Super Slut. She has a huge vagina tattoo of a superman icon. She is very proud of her Super Slut status. I'm all good with wearing your art but really???
BS me 39
WH him 40
Dd 7/1/13. TT 7/22/13
SAHM with 4 wonderful kids
Posts: 190 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Kansas City
Member # 42541
| Posted: 12:47 AM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014|
Skank whore is used a lot...
What's her face...
Sometimes I just use the word "her"...
She had like 3 different names.... So I'm not even sure what WH called her when they were together...
[This message edited by lovehatelove at 1:40 AM, March 5th (Wednesday)]
DDay ~ 2/23/13
Posts: 163 | Registered: Feb 2014
Member # 41986
| Posted: 1:56 AM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014|
my WW is the one who prefers nicknames. "him" for instance. i call them by their names. i also refuse to use euphanisms for what was done, i call it what it was. why should i sugar coat it all?
[This message edited by william at 9:12 AM, March 5th (Wednesday)]
me - bh
her - lara01
from 09/11 - 05/13
2 ONS, 10 sexting partners, 1 LT EA/PA
??/06/13 DD/1 - admits to LT EA, begin false R.
01/13/14 DD/2 - LTA was PA.
01/18/14 DD/3 - sexting 5 guys.
01/19/14 DD/4 - 2 ONS with different guys
Posts: 581 | Registered: Jan 2014
|Getting to Happy|
Member # 35200
| Posted: 11:33 AM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014|
For a while the ho-worker was called his 'wife'. And I became his 'business partner'.
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Posts: 1144 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
Member # 39134
| Posted: 11:47 AM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014|
When I am nice--coke whore.
DD 1 - 7/7/2004
DD 2 - 10/31/2011
DD 3 - 4/30/2013(or continuation?)(Yes)
DD 4 - 9/25/2013
DD 5 - 2/15/2014 (found phone from 2009)
Posts: 502 | Registered: Apr 2013
Member # 42530
| Posted: 5:10 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014|
old leathery twat
WH : 40
2 Boys Age 10, 13
D-Day Feb 16 2014
OW: My Co-worker
Posts: 71 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Canada
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