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User Topic: What are some good Imago therapy books?
ElectricBlue
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Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, July 19th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can anyone recommend any they've read that they were impressed with? I figure even if he can't communicate maybe I can learn how.


I'm the BW, 3 DDays since 2010....
6/28/12, the day I finally admitted to myself that nothing I did would ever matter to him, he's just broken. So I'm gonna just let go.....

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Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 7:30 PM, July 19th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Getting the Love You Want" by Harville Hendrix.

The book has several exercises in the back, but I'd recommend getting the separate exercise book to go with the reading book. The seperate one has better descriiptions and a few more exercises than what is given in the abbreviated, back of the book version.

We bought two copies of the book and read a chapter each week. Then we'd do the exercises as we moved through the book. We ended up liking the experience so much we saw an Imago therapist for our MC.


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


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ElectricBlue
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Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, July 20th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Fighting. That's one I came across several times, now it's been given a real world recommendation, always a good thing.


I'm the BW, 3 DDays since 2010....
6/28/12, the day I finally admitted to myself that nothing I did would ever matter to him, he's just broken. So I'm gonna just let go.....

Posts: 283 | Registered: Mar 2012
Rollercoaster
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Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, July 20th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I ditto "Getting the Love You Want".


Me BS 55, WS 55
Reconciled

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ElectricBlue
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Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, July 22nd (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you.


I'm the BW, 3 DDays since 2010....
6/28/12, the day I finally admitted to myself that nothing I did would ever matter to him, he's just broken. So I'm gonna just let go.....

Posts: 283 | Registered: Mar 2012
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