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User Topic: t/j - dating - share your w.t.f. moments
peacelovetea
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Default  Posted: 12:56 AM, February 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Toodevoted --


BW, SAHM
D-Day: 6/5/09, drunken ONS on business trip, confessed immediately, transparent, remorseful but emotionally clueless
M 11 years, 3 kids
4/12 Tried to R for 3 years, have decided to D
12/31/12 D final

Posts: 542 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: PacNW
EvenKeel
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Default  Posted: 7:21 AM, February 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just love this thread!

Red pants - On a good note, he was wearing pants.

No socks guy - WTH is right.

Sex before we break up guy - Wow....I wonder what faith he is in that encourages this.


Eyes are useless if the mind is blind.


Posts: 2181 | Registered: May 2009 | From: Pa
Gomphus
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, February 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok, I'll try to share one. I was in OLD for a bit when I moved to a new area and was messaged by a woman. Her profile indicated she was pursuing a phd and she seemed interesting enough so we met for coffee. We talked a bit about doctorates and it turns out she was just talking to a professor about potentially doing a doctorate. Fair enough. She also only had a BS, and most phd programs require an MS nowadays unless you're stellar so I was thinking, wow. Phd was to be in astronomy, which I though, ok, didn't know you could get a phd in that but a good program. Then she goes on for 20 minutes about how she's going to research the colony of aliens that originally inhabited earth, like I knew about this 'theory'. I forget what it's called, but she was referring to some theory about a planet that came through earth's orbit long ago and seeded the human population. Well, it is supposed to come back and she was going to collect data, blah, blah. I didn't know what to say. Then she tells me she still lives with, and sleeps with, her bf at his parents house. She tried to hug me and asked for a second date but I declined.


me - 41 BH
D'ed
Surviving

Posts: 425 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: VA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gomphus - that research sounds... ummm... interesting?

But the kicker?

Then she tells me she still lives with, and sleeps with, her bf at his parents house. She tried to hug me and asked for a second date but I declined.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25765 | Registered: Aug 2011
roughroadahead
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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

 "unless you're stellar so I was thinking, wow. Phd was to be in astronomy"

... no pun intended?


BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism

Posts: 739 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: USA
notmeanymore
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Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love this thread.

Once my friends husband decided to set me up with a friend of his. We emailed and made plans to meet up. He told me I'd recognize him because he had a red go-tee. Go-tee? I thought he would be wearing a red t-shirt with GO on it.

On another blind date my date asked me if I knew what the word was that described a plant leaf that was green and white. He knew the answer, he was...quizzing me on vocabulary. What is variegated for $200 Alex.


"Put the cuckoo back in the clock baby" - Four Brothers

Posts: 873 | Registered: Feb 2006
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm not doing OLD right now, but I can't get enough of these stories...so I'm going to bump this.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13801 | Registered: Jul 2011
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 9:53 AM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just this morning, I received the "hello, Beautiful" message from a guy that used his Department of Corrections pic as his OLD photo.

Oh, yeah. Sign me up please.

You know, he might be a potential match - at least he wouldn't be all clingy and hanging around all the time.....

[This message edited by Williesmom at 9:54 AM, May 6th (Tuesday)]


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7772 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
cmego
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Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Current guy I'm seeing told me about a message he received from a woman…it was their second email exchange…and she sent him a link for a fetish website all about spanking, and detailed what she would like him to do to her.

He declined.


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4186 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

she sent him a link for a fetish website all about spanking

OMG, priceless! Oh, to see the look on his face!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7772 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
BelleStar
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

great smile... get back.. like to go for a ride in the corvette ??

This was the OLD guys idea of an opening line???

But what really made it creepy was the pair of handcuffs hanging off his bedroom lamp in his selfie...ewewww!

WTF!?!


Posts: 1127 | Registered: Feb 2007
Tripletrouble
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got an opening email that said "I really want to get married. Please pick me.".


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 638 | Registered: May 2013
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not dating yet but my BFF JK has some winners. One dude told her that being left handed was a sign of the devil when she signed her credit card slip.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 773 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
marlie2014
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This thread is KILLING me, I haven't laughed this much in I don't know how long!

Two questions: 1) What is OLD?
2) What is FOO?

I'm almost scared to start dating after reading this! But I'm thinking I'll probably wait at least a year anyway (I should be completely divorced in another week or so).


BS: 33
WS: 35 and definitely SA
Married: 9 years
1 stepchild, now 18 years old
DDay: 9/2/2013
ONS: Multiples over at least a 6-year period, at least twenty
1 OC 5 yrs old and another on the way (by different ONS)
DIVORCED AND FREE!!!!

Posts: 211 | Registered: Oct 2013
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OLD = Online Dating
FOO= Family of Origin


Posts: 3419 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
marlie2014
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Default  Posted: 10:43 AM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

*facepalm*
Thank you, itainteasy. I seriously thought OLD stood for some particular online dating website...LOL


BS: 33
WS: 35 and definitely SA
Married: 9 years
1 stepchild, now 18 years old
DDay: 9/2/2013
ONS: Multiples over at least a 6-year period, at least twenty
1 OC 5 yrs old and another on the way (by different ONS)
DIVORCED AND FREE!!!!

Posts: 211 | Registered: Oct 2013
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 10:45 AM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No worries. I had no idea what they meant either for the LONGEST time. I was too chicken shit to ask though, so I waited around for someone else to!!!

Posts: 3419 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
LineInTheSand
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Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOL This thread is hilarious!!

I'll play along!

The second question I asked was how old he was. 22. Like born in 1991.

This happened to me recently. The young'uns was a mere 23! I was visiting a local bar due to a reggae event being held there. The whippersnapper is wanting to play pool and asked if I'll join him. I decline. He then says he'll teach me. I smile and say "no thanks!"

BTW, the guy is very handsome. And, I'm thinking to myself in a motherly kind of way, he's good-looking for a young guy. He then asked to sit at my table and tries to sweet talk me. I'm cracking up because I can't believe he's actually trying to pick up on me. GOSH DARN!! I'm old enough to be his mother!!!

He later leaves with his friends and says goodbye. I can't make out what else he says because the music is blaring. Approximately an hour later, I leave. And guess who is driving up into the parking lot?? Yep! The 23 year old! This guy is persistent, I'll tell ya!! He approaches my vehicle and asks why I'm leaving so early. He then asks for my number. I say, "Don't you think I'm a little too old for you?"

His response, "No, I think I'm a little too old for you!" Ain't that S-M-O-O-T-H??? Be still my heart!!

Even though he was good-looking and I was a bit flattered that he approached me, I could never get with a guy who's young enough to be my son. Ewww.

I think back to when I was his age and the thought of getting involved with a 45 year old would have grossed me out! How a young man could even think of getting with an older woman leaves me baffled. Same goes for old geezers trying to hit on the young women. Yuck.


Posts: 495 | Registered: Jul 2008
marlie2014
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Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, now these are supposed to be dating stories, but along the same lines...

I go to the same car wash every few weeks, and it's an older American guy and a young guy from Honduras. The last time I was there, the young guy was saying how great it was to see me again. That's after my first time meeting him where he proceeded to pay me all kinds of compliments. I don't think he could be any older than 20...and considering that my stepson is 18, well...

It always leaves me ROTFL! Like, dude, I'm not Mrs. Robinson! Ha ha I hope he doesn't find out that I'm (almost) divorced!


BS: 33
WS: 35 and definitely SA
Married: 9 years
1 stepchild, now 18 years old
DDay: 9/2/2013
ONS: Multiples over at least a 6-year period, at least twenty
1 OC 5 yrs old and another on the way (by different ONS)
DIVORCED AND FREE!!!!

Posts: 211 | Registered: Oct 2013
trumanshow
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Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I could never get with a guy who's young enough to be my son


Me either-and I told them that. This seems to be the thing now


Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.

The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed


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