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Cally60
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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, October 7th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Anyone know what an SGAS Day is?

[Edited to change my mind. ]

I think that it was used by someone here for a "Stop Giving A Sh** Day" (ie a day when one made a conscious effort not to care.)

[This message edited by Cally60 at 7:56 PM, October 7th (Monday)]


Posts: 2113 | Registered: Mar 2009
forlornheart
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Member # 40726
Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I saw the abbreviation BBC today and I just can't figure that one out.

Anyone?


Me: 48- BW
Him: 45-WH-chronic cheater, PA and EA
Current Her: Mid to late 30's fatassed, no necked, troglodyte
D Day: August 23, 2013
Separated: August 23, 2013


Posts: 52 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Michigan
Tred
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Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Forlorn,

Can I ask where you saw it and how it was used in context? I know one abbreviation that it stands for, but I doubt that it would be used that way on SI.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3923 | Registered: Dec 2011
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe British Broadcasting Company.

Posts: 35142 | Registered: Mar 2011
Gumdropped
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Member # 40798
Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can you tell me how I copy text from a member and then start my response with it? I don't know to do that.

Thanks


Me: 56
Him: 60
Together 2 1/2 years


Living together 14 months
D day May 13th 2013
R


Posts: 199 | Registered: Sep 2013
naivewife
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Member # 38375
Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not an abbreviation but "Hoover?" What is that?


D-day #1 - 1/23/13
false R, then...
D-day #2 - 3/26/13
I will come for the benefit of the sick, remaining free of all intentional injustice, of all mischief and in particular of sexual relations with both female and male persons. - Hippocratic Oath

Posts: 342 | Registered: Feb 2013
EvacuationRoute
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Member # 41460
Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can I ask what S is? Sex? Separation?

Thanks

ER


Posts: 17 | Registered: Nov 2013
MOTG
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, November 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hoover may depend on the context but I think it refers to a type or vacuum cleaner which translates into a blow job or some who likes to give BJ's.


Me: 33 mother to 2 girls
Him: 1 PA and 2 EA
Us: together 9 years married 5 years. Trying to work through this.
I refuse to commemorate D-Day

Posts: 75 | Registered: Jun 2012
Camille87
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Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, December 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What is:
STBXWH or STBXWW?

Obviously WH and WW are wayward husband and wayward wife but the rest?


Me: BS--42
FWH--45 (recently diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder)
(Two kids: a teen & a tween)
Married 20 years
R in progress
D-day: Nov 17, 2012

Posts: 27 | Registered: Nov 2013
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 2:01 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


STBXWH or STBXWW = Soon To Be Ex-Wayward Husband or Wayward Wife.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 197733 | Registered: May 2002
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hoover or hoovering is when a spouse (reference is typically for a remorseless WS) emotionally manipulates you back into the fray when you were just starting to exert independence from the relationship. (ie sucks you back in)

Give or take.

[This message edited by Jrazz at 2:06 PM, December 5th (Thursday)]


I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown

Posts: 17304 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
ILINIA
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Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How about this one? TL;DR


Entering R slowly and cautiously...

Posts: 464 | Registered: Jul 2013
BrokenHurtAngry
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Anyone know what VAR means?


Me - 34
WH - 36
Married - 6 years
D-DAY: 11/11/13; PA: 18 months
No kids
Both in IC, plan to move to MC at a later date

Posts: 16 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Louisiana
BrokenHurtAngry
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Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How about this one? TL;DR

Too Long; Didn't Read


Me - 34
WH - 36
Married - 6 years
D-DAY: 11/11/13; PA: 18 months
No kids
Both in IC, plan to move to MC at a later date

Posts: 16 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Louisiana
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

VAR - Voice Activated Recorder

Posts: 35142 | Registered: Mar 2011
Senraba02
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Default  Posted: 1:16 AM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

whats R?

Posts: 29 | Registered: Dec 2013
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 1:18 AM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

R - Reconciliation

[This message edited by Brandon808 at 1:21 AM, December 16th, 2013 (Monday)]


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 3797 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
BeyondBrokenInTN
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Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much for post!!! Very helpful!


Me: BGF 38F
Him: WBF 33M
Together for 5.9 years (4/5/08)
PA - Oct. 16, 17, 18, 2013 (business training out of state)
EA - Oct. 14 - Nov. 22, 2013 (same Woman)
D-DAY ~ Nov 22, 2013 (I found emails & confronted).
Working toward Reconciliation

Posts: 61 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Tennessee
kmom2662
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, January 8th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What does LEO mean? I've seen it a few times but can't find a definition.


Me-- WW, 49
Him-- BH, 53 (bobf)
Married 22 years
OEA, chat/email with multiple people over an 8 week period, 8/2013-10/4/2013
D-day 10/4/13
Working on reconciliation

Posts: 69 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: United states
spond
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Member # 41686
Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, January 8th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LEO=Law enforcement officer


BH(me) | fWW
2 Kids - Married 2002
D-Day TT & EA | D-Day #2 PA
Reconciling

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