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User Topic: More Abbreviations
whensitover
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, December 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And who can forget POS-

Piece of shit. Always one of my favorites.


Posts: 422 | Registered: Feb 2011
SecondHelping
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Member # 36796
Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, December 17th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What does SA stand for?


D-Day 1: Feb 1990 (2 yrs into M, Kissing and a hickey)
D-Day 2: 3 Sep 2012 (3 month EA/3 week PA)
BS 49- Me, fWW 43- Her (Amibroken)
OP- Deputy Chief of Police from the town next to us! (Age 37)
Married 25 Years, Together 28
3 Kids (17, 14, 11)

Posts: 469 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Delmarva
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, January 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SA=Sex Addict


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 34758 | Registered: Sep 2007
somanyyears
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Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, January 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


.. ..i've been using 'bff' to mean best forever friend, 25 years .. but i saw today the abbrev. bmf and bff to refer to best 'male' friend and best 'female' friend..

..so to clarify ..all my posts in the past 3 years stating that i hate my bff .. ya, he's a guy. NOT MUCH OF ONE THOUGH!..

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 66
Her 63
Married 41 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4018 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
MonsterBride
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Member # 37899
Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, January 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What does MLC mean?


Me: BW, 36
Him: WH, 39, serial disappointment
Crimes: secret girlfriends, strippers
Status: preparing for divorce

Posts: 86 | Registered: Dec 2012
Lucky2HaveMe
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Member # 13333
Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, January 23rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SA can also mean sexual abuse depending on the context

MLC = Mid Life Crisis


~L2HM~
Every Storm Runs out of Rain ~ Gary Allen

Posts: 5471 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
SAR681
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Member # 36285
Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, February 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What is 2x4's?


BW – Me, 32 FWH - Him, 33
Married 9 years, together for 14
3 Kids: 5 yrs, 3 yrs, 18 months
MOW - my "friend"
DD#1 – July 2012, admitted to an EA
DD#2 – 1/14/13, finally admitted to PA

http://endureevolve.blogspot.com/


Posts: 122 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Somewhere in Middle America
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 1:56 PM, February 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's figuratively hitting someone over the head with a 2x4, kind of like knocking sense into somebody.

It's being honest with advice, even if it feels like scolding.

Sometimes a person does a 'gentle 2x4' because they want to help but they don't want to be too tough in their response to the poster.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 34758 | Registered: Sep 2007
Strengthtonotcry
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Member # 38393
Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, February 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What does IC mean?


Me: BF (betrayed fiancé)
Dday 2/6/2013

I must have the strength


Posts: 25 | Registered: Feb 2013
Deeply Scared
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Member # 2
Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, February 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IC = Individual Counseling


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 192077 | Registered: May 2002
mentalmess
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Member # 31296
Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, February 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CSA as in a type of affair? I cant find a definition anywhere.,


Me BS 50
Him WS 48
OW 57 Boiling bunnies non stop for months!
M 25 years
LTA 5 years
DDay 1/5/2011
R'ed, very happy and we are enjoying his early retirement!

Posts: 80 | Registered: Feb 2011
ellie1977
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Member # 38248
Default  Posted: 11:04 AM, February 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What does AP mean?

I think it's affair patner but that didn't make sense in all the threads I've read.


Me: BW 35 ~ almost 36
Him: WH 33~ almost 34
Married: 04/08/02
3 Kids
DD: Of PA and EA 12/31/12 knew before he admitted for 5 months
A: PA lasted 8 months EA lasted about 1 yr
OW: my cousin who was living with us the entire time of PA.
Hoping for R

Posts: 23 | Registered: Jan 2013
Lucky2HaveMe
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Member # 13333
Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, February 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have seen CSA used to mean Chid Sexual Abuse

AP - I've only seen it used as Affair Patner so not sure what other text you are referring to?


~L2HM~
Every Storm Runs out of Rain ~ Gary Allen

Posts: 5471 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
Thomas45840
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Default  Posted: 6:16 AM, March 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have seen CSA used for Casual Sex Affair.


Me: BS 50
She: WS 49
D-Day: 7/19/2002
Married 24y
Kids: s20, s17
Status: R'd

Posts: 19 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: OH
hopefulmother
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Member # 38790
Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, March 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Why do some posts have a heart next to them?


Me-BW 39
WH-39
D-day 9-4-12
The day he stopped talking about her and focused on REAL R. 10-4-12
BF 20yrs
Together since 2000
Married 9yrs with 2 toddlers
This is the exact moment when you can give him what he doesn't deserve-mercy and grace.

Posts: 684 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: PA-Ebensburg
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, March 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The hearts indicate that there are new responses since you lasted visited that page.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them-Vicky Baum


Posts: 49764 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
hopefulmother
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Member # 38790
Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, March 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How do I post others comments in my post with the block, like I have seen in so many replies? I use copy and paste right click.


Me-BW 39
WH-39
D-day 9-4-12
The day he stopped talking about her and focused on REAL R. 10-4-12
BF 20yrs
Together since 2000
Married 9yrs with 2 toddlers
This is the exact moment when you can give him what he doesn't deserve-mercy and grace.

Posts: 684 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: PA-Ebensburg
windowsnotwalls
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Member # 36983
Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, March 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How do I post others comments in my post with the block, like I have seen in so many replies? I use copy and paste right click.

Copy it. Paste it to the reply box, highlight it, click "quote" on the left of the box. Or just put [***quote]before it and [***/quote] after without the ***

[This message edited by windowsnotwalls at 12:49 PM, March 29th (Friday)]


"She stood in the storm, and when the wind did not blow her way, she adjusted her sails" (Elizabeth Edwards).
http://youtu.be/62oby83NtGw
Forever Conditionally Detached

Posts: 503 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Pittsburgh, PA
har2muvon
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

New to site and trying to understand abbreviations. What is D-Day: Discovery Day?


har2muvon

Posts: 1 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Colorado
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, May 2nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

har2...

Yes d-day = Discovery Day


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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