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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:41 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! Congrats, ItsaClimb!!!


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JustDesserts
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Default  Posted: 8:04 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This "A picture tells a thousand words" thread is poignant and happy and sad to view and read.

Our pictures now, in R, and as a family, are happy ones.

But I also know there was a lengthy time where any pixels which captured and replicated me, replicated a lying, cheating, broken and sad person. The outward appearance...like always...put together, cool, attractive. Yup, the world needs my surface to be just so. But the inner man...rather ugly.

It is lovely to see these images. They show strength, hope, character, and a big slice of the human condition...in the face of human fraility.


2 year EA/PA. DDay 3/12. Broke NC 6/13 w/one stupid 5 line e-mail (which brought me to SI). Me: WH, 50. Her: BW, 49. Married 19 years. Two kids. Dog. Reconciling...together.

Posts: 403 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Suburbia, New England, USA
kernel
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Default  Posted: 5:18 PM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

[This message edited by kernel at 5:23 PM, August 17th (Saturday)]


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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ladyvorkosigan
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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


It nagged him, in particular, that none of the girls hed known so far had given him a sense of unalloyed triumph.

Posts: 14226 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: Florida
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG, look at her!

How are you LadyV?


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37123 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
ladyvorkosigan
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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Really great. REALLY.


It nagged him, in particular, that none of the girls hed known so far had given him a sense of unalloyed triumph.

Posts: 14226 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: Florida
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG...LadyV she is beautiful!


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


Posts: 13745 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She's absolutely beautiful.

Good to see you LadyV!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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ladyvorkosigan
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Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good to see everyone! Appreciate the welcome!


It nagged him, in particular, that none of the girls hed known so far had given him a sense of unalloyed triumph.

Posts: 14226 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: Florida
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So...how big is Lord V's gun?

She's gorgeous!


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21048 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That makes me happy

(not the part about LordV's gun )


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She's beautiful.

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imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Baby V isn't a baby anymore!!!!!!


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


Posts: 5380 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland
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Default  Posted: 11:28 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

UO, Hello!!

Far out - I can't believe how young you are. I see it in your tagline but I must not have registered it properly.

I always imagined you as a brunette with a bob ... kinda like my maths teacher who also used to give me massive brain benders.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 12:51 AM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So good to see everyone!


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 3905 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
lost4now
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Default  Posted: 9:19 AM, October 23rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(img)[URL=http://s1317.photobucket.com/user/himh/media/04009ac1-2ded-44da-8ec3-33e6db7985dd_zps6c4e1e20.jpg.html][/URL](img)

I don't know if I did this right. First attempt at posting a pic. This was me about two months ago.


BS - ME 43
WH 44
Married 20 years
DDay #1 12/28/07
DDay #2 9/18/08
DDay #3 12/28/08
Dday #4 11/18/10 (same OW)
Dday #5 8/22/12 (same OW)
2 beautiful daughters
"Love grows where it is nurtured and dies where it is not!"

Posts: 841 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: NJ
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 3:25 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lost4now, that is a great pic....so pretty


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


Posts: 13745 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
hobbeskat
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Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

*poof*

[This message edited by hobbeskat at 2:24 PM, November 7th (Thursday)]


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hobbeskat...

Great picture...you both look so hip and cool


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

JM and ds15 today on ds' birthday.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

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