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User Topic: Premium Access
silverhopes
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Member # 32753
Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, February 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you DS, that's what I'll do.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 3905 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
IDeserveMore
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Member # 40460
Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

QUESTION: if I sign up for one of the premium accounts, what does the charge show up as on my credit card?

I don't want to lead my WH to this site. He knows I am on a site like this, but not which one. And I want to retain my privacy.


Me BS 45, him 48, 15yo DD and 13yo DS
DD#1 1998, DD#2 2004
6 years of TT yields chronicity.
I may never get over it.

Posts: 71 | Registered: Aug 2013
Deeply Scared
♀ Administrator
Member # 2
Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IDeserveMore...

It shows up as SI Online


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198332 | Registered: May 2002
strengthandhope
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Member # 37907
Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I upgraded to silver access and the charge on my credit card was for $39.84...I thought it was only $19.95?


Me: BS 30s
Him: SAWH, 30s sexting, pic sharing & phone sex with men & women
2 kids, M 8 yrs
DD#1 3/08, DD#2 7/11, DD#3 10/12 DD#4 2/14
OW #1 PA from 6/13-8/13 CL Troll
OW #2 EA from 11/13-2/14 online/phone sex A
Taking R 90 days at a time.

Posts: 183 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Mid west
strengthandhope
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Member # 37907
Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, April 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Any help for me? I thought silver access was less than $20, but the charge on my card was for $39.84


Me: BS 30s
Him: SAWH, 30s sexting, pic sharing & phone sex with men & women
2 kids, M 8 yrs
DD#1 3/08, DD#2 7/11, DD#3 10/12 DD#4 2/14
OW #1 PA from 6/13-8/13 CL Troll
OW #2 EA from 11/13-2/14 online/phone sex A
Taking R 90 days at a time.

Posts: 183 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Mid west
Deeply Scared
♀ Administrator
Member # 2
Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, April 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry, I thought I replied to you earlier.

I do show the charge of $39.84, the Silver upgrade is $19.92 and those amounts are hardcoded into the system, so you may have hit the Enter key twice by accident.

I can certainly do a refund for the additional $19.92 for you.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198332 | Registered: May 2002
strengthandhope
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Member # 37907
Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, April 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you I appreciate it!


Me: BS 30s
Him: SAWH, 30s sexting, pic sharing & phone sex with men & women
2 kids, M 8 yrs
DD#1 3/08, DD#2 7/11, DD#3 10/12 DD#4 2/14
OW #1 PA from 6/13-8/13 CL Troll
OW #2 EA from 11/13-2/14 online/phone sex A
Taking R 90 days at a time.

Posts: 183 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Mid west
Nothanks
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Member # 43225
Default  Posted: 12:29 AM, April 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do we have to donate after 51 posts?

Posts: 59 | Registered: Apr 2014
Deeply Scared
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Member # 2
Default  Posted: 8:08 AM, April 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nothanks...

No one is required to donate anything, so I'm a little unclear with your question.

If you could clarify I'll be happy to help


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198332 | Registered: May 2002
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, May 31st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YaY! I am now a platinum member (along with my platinum va jay jay)

There is a feature that I didn't think I would ever use, but since someone else saw fit to use it on me, I want to use it back so I am not reminded everytime that this person is a "mean girl" who doesn't like moi .

I can't find the way to "block" someone, can I get a PM or explain how to do that here?

Thanks so much!

eta: The term I was looking for was "unfollow" or "forget" and I figured it out on my own.

[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 11:46 AM, May 31st (Saturday)]


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9801 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, May 31st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sent you a PM SMS.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6317 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
MissMovingOn
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Member # 30720
Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, June 9th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Feature request - not sure if this has already been commented on/asked.

When I'm using Simplicity and my "session" expires (after the two weeks or whatever the default is) I get kicked to an error page that says my upgrade level doesn't allow me to use that feature (or whatever the exact message is - not sure). Would it be possible, instead of just that error message, to either be redirected to the login page or have a link to the login page on the error page? It's not so bad on a computer to have to backtrack to the login page but on my phone it's a bit of a pain going back to the main page and then loading up the "non-simplicity" page to log in.

No biggie if this would be a pain in the ass.


Me: BS, 34
Him: (SA/NPD)WH, 31
Multiple ddays since 2010 (Latest January 15th 2013) - not counting anymore!
FINAL FINAL DDay - August 8, 2014. I AM DONE!

Posts: 418 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: West Coast Canada
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, June 10th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MissMovingOn...

MH will look into this for you and we'll let you know


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198332 | Registered: May 2002
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is there a way to un forget someone who has been blocked from the site?


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13802 | Registered: Jul 2011
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Miss moving on, I have two bookmarks on my phone for that reason - the simplicity one I use, and the main log in page just for when it expires.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13802 | Registered: Jul 2011
MangledHeart
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Member # 1
Default  Posted: 5:05 PM, June 16th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When your session expires in SImplicity you will now be directed to the SImplicity login page instead of the feature unavailable page.

You can now delete follow and forget links from within your profile using the regular interface. This programming has not yet been extended to the SImplicity interface.


Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom

Posts: 5082 | Registered: May 2002 | From: Texas
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 7:31 AM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When your session expires in SImplicity you will now be directed to the SImplicity login page instead of the feature unavailable page.

Great!!! This will make it so much easier to log in on my phone and tablet. I've rarely use SImplicity because I always have to log in!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4209 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 3:48 AM, June 21st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks MH!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13802 | Registered: Jul 2011
MissMovingOn
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Member # 30720
Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, June 21st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you thank you thank you!


Me: BS, 34
Him: (SA/NPD)WH, 31
Multiple ddays since 2010 (Latest January 15th 2013) - not counting anymore!
FINAL FINAL DDay - August 8, 2014. I AM DONE!

Posts: 418 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: West Coast Canada
deceivedguy
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Member # 44049
Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, July 11th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Two questions;
1) There is a link to donations via PayPal, when following the heart link above the navigation menu.
Can I use that donation to upgrade my profile? On the profile update page, there is only the option to use credit cards.

2) If I upgrade my profile to silver, can i pay the difference at a later date to upgrade to a higher level (for the remainder of my upgrade period)?

Thanks!


Me (49), WW (44), 2 Awesome DDs
DDay 6/2/2014 - 16 years married
Possibly new or continuing A, currently.
Worst experience of my life. Still having a tough time dealing with this. I appreciate your support, more than I can express.

Posts: 178 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Indiana
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