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Dagny07
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Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, September 23rd (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have the same issues as cayc:

My upgrade worked, but the subscription ID line is blank (i.e. no number).

Tho I rarely post, I'm on this site almost everyday. We're in R and I owe a debt of gratitude to this site and the extraordinary people who run it and contribute to it.

We wouldn't have made it without you.


Me:BW Him: FWH E/A
M: 29 years, together 36 : both guilty of PAs 20+ years ago
CDay#1 Oct 06 (false); DDay#2 Oct 07 (truth from OW's BH)
R: Tenaciously optimistic

Posts: 835 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Midwest
dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, September 23rd (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am in D right now & super broke.
Can I sent in my payment along with my Christmas card as I do send in a yearly *gratitude contribution* every Xmas.


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25435 | Registered: Sep 2005
lifeblowntobits
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Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, September 23rd (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bonus from work coming this week so I will definitely be upgrading! This is awesome!


Me-BS-44, Him-WH-45-very remorseful
OW-Married, opportunistic co-worker whore
DD#1 7-30-2011: everything else lies until 2-12-12
Married 11years, DS19y, DS15y
2.5 years out: in a good place, light at the end of the tunnel


Posts: 1646 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Illinois
cryingdaily
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Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, September 24th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, it's probably right in front of my face but.....how do I see older posts?


Me: BS 48
Him: Doesn't matter any more.
The Royal Court, formerly known as the Princess Posse:
DD31 - Belle
DD23 - Xena
GD10 - Jasmine
GD8 - Ariel
GD Born 9/4/12 - Tink
GS Born 6/23/2014 - Little Prince

Posts: 14400 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: Massachusetts
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, September 24th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CD - From the Forums page, click on "CLICK HERE" for SImplicity. Then click on "Profile." There's a link for "View Oldest Posts"

Be sure to set aside a bit of time. It's engrossing...


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Chria
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Default  Posted: 8:49 AM, September 25th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't scroll through the entire 5 pages of this topic (call me lazy). Sorry if these have already been answered....

I always send a check at the beginning of each year. Should I stop doing that and go to credit card from now on?

Since there is now a 'benefit' for paying, is it still tax-deductible?

[This message edited by Chria at 8:49 AM, September 25th (Tuesday)]


There is never a single right solution. But there are always multiple wrong ones.

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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, September 25th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Chria...

I always send a check at the beginning of each year. Should I stop doing that and go to credit card from now on?

And we greatly appreciate that you do that every year!! If it were me, I would use the CC method that way you get access to all your old posts along with the other benefits.

Since there is now a 'benefit' for paying, is it still tax-deductible?

Absolutely I'll be revising the 'receipt' for everyone that has upgraded to the SImplicity and will send them out most likely in the next two weeks. Plenty of time before end of year taxes


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Chria
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Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, September 25th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would use the CC method that way you get access to all your old posts along with the other benefits.

Can I wait until January? (I guess this means no benefits until then ?)

[This message edited by Chria at 9:33 AM, September 25th (Tuesday)]


There is never a single right solution. But there are always multiple wrong ones.

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joe blow
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, September 25th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've heard about the auction block a few times now, but never seen it as a forum. What exactly is it, and how can I access it?


Posts: 62 | Registered: Dec 2007
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, September 25th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry Chria

Joe...we will be holding an auction with goods that have been donated by some very generous members. If all goes right, it should be open to the public this week


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, September 25th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Okay...Ummm...when did the Auction Block forum disappear? It was up there for a couple years...as was noticeable by the some mods accidentally moving threads there on a layover to the proper forum destination...

Am I the only one who didn't notice it disappeared?


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 9:37 PM, September 25th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No Baxter, you're just a little late to the party.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, September 25th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just point me to the booze and it all be fine...


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, September 25th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There appears to be some tainted Kool Aid in General.


Also, can the Guides please stop jacking this thread? Geez.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17860 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:44 PM, September 25th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did I miss a Guide thread jack? Dang.

DS - VERY excited for the Auction forum to make a comeback!!!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Angelstar5
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Default  Posted: 3:06 AM, September 26th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know you said using paypal would be a pain, but i'm confused because you accept paypal for donations.

I can't use a credit card, i HAVE to use paypal. THere are reasons, one being that I do not want WH to know i spent money for this, and he never goes thru the checking account but does the credit cards. I can't use my debit card because we get text messeges related to that (my doing, keeps me posted if he uses it for weird stuff)

So, what if i donate to paypal, can someone upgrade it for me then? I'll pay whatever fee paypal is charging. thanks


Me 47,WH 46 alcoholic/Married 25y
2 kids age 16 and 28
DDay #1-7/3/94 hooker, DDAY #2,2/10/12 found 100's of calls to a hooker gaslighting begins. DDay#3 3/26/12 proof/TT DDay#4 3/28/12 weekly sex with 2 hookers Dec-Feb. Several EAs

Posts: 753 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Fort Worth TX
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, September 26th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dreamlife...

Can I sent in my payment along with my Christmas card as I do send in a yearly *gratitude contribution* every Xmas.

Angelstar...

So, what if i donate to paypal, can someone upgrade it for me then? I'll pay whatever fee paypal is charging. thanks

The Premium access currently is programmed to handle CC payments only. I'm sorry!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198328 | Registered: May 2002
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, September 26th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I changed my user name due to privacy concerns (the mods were kind enough to let me do that). If I pay for premium access, will I be able to see archived posts of other users as well (i.e. my original user name)?

Onceinalifetime...

You would have to pick which account you want the premium access to be applied to, unless you upgrade both your accounts. But with your old account, you would not be able to post under...it would be strictly 'read only' If that's the route you want to go, please let me know privately that you want your old account re-opened for reading your previous posts


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198328 | Registered: May 2002
mitz66
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, September 26th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi! I just checked my visa bill and unfortunately it says www.survivinginfidelit springs TX. I thought you should know how it is showing up on the bill. I am okay as my wh does not have online access. But others may have an issue. Don't know if that can be fixed.


Me:44 BS Him:43 WH
M May 07 Adult kids
DDay #1 Pics on cell jly 07
Jan08 DDay #2 "Just Friends" admits EA DDay #3 July 2010 - he insisted on platonic contact ..False R - until Dec 2010 admits PA in April 07
Dec 2012 NC succeeded

Posts: 543 | Registered: Jan 2008
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, September 26th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

mitz...thanks so much...I'll call our cc processor first thing in the morning.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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