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User Topic: The Birthday Thread!
sad12008
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Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Still December 11th...comes around faster & faster w/each passing year!

Thanks BR


"Everybody's life is hard. You look at life, and it's not a cakewalk. You've got to be able to bounce back." --Neil Young, father to two children with CP, another with epilepsy, and otherwise experientially qualified to comment

Posts: 3863 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together
need_hope
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Member # 23989
Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Still here...still Oct. 7th.


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.


Posts: 1730 | Registered: May 2009 | From: East Coast
OneFootForward
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Member # 39136
Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, May 2nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

June 15th


Me: 42 BS
Her: 41 EMA
Married: 16 years
D-Day#1: 04/17/13
D-Day#2: 05/8/13
Children: 9,5 (girls)
Om: High School Flame
"Marital problems doesn't make someone a cheater just like financial problems doesn't make someone a thief"

Posts: 71 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Mobile, AL
Chili
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Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, May 2nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Still May 2nd!


Me: BSO
Him: Assclown
Too many years tied up with him.
April-May 2012 pretty much sucked.
"I'd love to give a dog a bone, but I'm not gonna stick around to help you" - Jack White

Posts: 242 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Reality
SurprisinglyOkay
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Member # 36684
Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, May 2nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

November 21!!


FWS me 36 (recovering addict)
BS him 39 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1130 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
Too_Trusting
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Member # 99
Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today and still here!


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

Posts: 2454 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry, on the way!!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 43
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

Posts: 10653 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
phoenixrivers
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, May 11th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

August 23


Me: xBetrayedBF (xBBF)
Her: xWaywardGF (xWGF)
TT: 12/21/12
Splitsville: 1/6/13
DDay: 7/20/13
In active reconcilliation
"Nobody knows anybody...not that well." Tom Reagan, "Miller's Crossing"

Posts: 136 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: New Orleans, LA
curiouswiz
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Member # 34405
Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, gall dang it! I'll be 60 this June 25!

Oh nooo.....


God bless us, everyone.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston
Elaine2012
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Member # 36099
Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, May 17th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

June 28th


Me- 53
WH- 57
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 2 SIL, 3 grandchildren

Posts: 285 | Registered: Jul 2012
scaredyKat
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Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Crap. 59 today... How did that happen?


Me-BS-60
HIM-SAFWH-63
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

Posts: 3459 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
whatabummer
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Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

November 6

Posts: 6 | Registered: Mar 2013
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

UPdated!!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 43
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

Posts: 10653 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
ninebark
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Default  Posted: 6:06 AM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today ...29 with 12 years experience...lol


BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada
fourever
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Default  Posted: 8:34 AM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

56 today, think I'll pick another number and just keep having anniversaries of that. Say, 36 maybe.


In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!


Posts: 873 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Northeast
merrmeade
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Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Somehow I haven't really gotten hooked in here the way I have been on Loveshack but today (June 5) - my birthday - I happened to see a PM I got some months ago. The message shocked me in its similarity to the status of my growth post-A.

I started poking around again and saw this thread. Happy birthday to me! This is better than the lies and insincerity around me.

[This message edited by merrmeade at 8:07 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)]


Posts: 1 | Registered: Jul 2012
spldbrt614
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Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Birth day is July 6th

Posts: 8 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Anne Arundel Co Md
FightingBack
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Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine is June 25th


Me 53
WH 58
Married 25 years
4 children S30,D24, S23,S21
D-Day Nov. 29, 2011
15 year affair with married employee.
Together trying to make sense of it all!

Posts: 753 | Registered: Feb 2012
huRtZ413
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

july 25



me_BW
him_WH


I'M ON THE FENCE



Posts: 278 | Registered: May 2013
toomanyregrets
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Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

July 8.
3 more years and I can retire and work at Walmart as a greeter. Beats the job I have now.


BH - 64
fWW - 60

"Affairs are not mistakes, they are a series of deliberate choices." - CrappyLife


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