Topic: Hoovering- Don't Get Sucked Back In
Member # 33699
| Posted: 8:49 AM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014|
Is there any way that this thread can be added to the Healing Library? Or at least the two posts TIKY initially posted?
I've heard of Hoovering but this really hit home.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
Posts: 3415 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Member # 34543
| Posted: 10:07 AM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014|
I needed this today.
D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12
Posts: 458 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
Member # 20849
| Posted: 7:19 AM, March 6th (Thursday), 2014|
I'm bumping this because I need to see this and let it sink in also. I was kind of wondering past few days if this is what is going on or not. I do think mine is sincere, but he is already getting tired of some of the new boundaries.
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
Posts: 15227 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
Member # 17062
| Posted: 6:13 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014|
Bumping - this is the first time I've read this.
Excellent article!! Thanks TIKY.
D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 57 y/o Him, WS, 58 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 19 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.
Posts: 3455 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: UK
Member # 33226
| Posted: 9:43 AM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014|
You can call me NIK
"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
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