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User Topic: Hoovering- Don't Get Sucked Back In
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Default  Posted: 8:49 AM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is there any way that this thread can be added to the Healing Library? Or at least the two posts TIKY initially posted?

I've heard of Hoovering but this really hit home.

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

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Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I needed this today.

D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

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Default  Posted: 7:19 AM, March 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm bumping this because I need to see this and let it sink in also. I was kind of wondering past few days if this is what is going on or not. I do think mine is sincere, but he is already getting tired of some of the new boundaries.

Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

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Default  Posted: 6:13 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping - this is the first time I've read this.
Excellent article!! Thanks TIKY.

D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 57 y/o Him, WS, 58 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 19 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams

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