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User Topic: Who is wondering about folks we haven't seen in a while?
okaynow
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Default  Posted: 11:06 PM, January 7th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Basic_guy? Bpositive?


Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
D-day: 2/18/07.
1 child
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.

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island_girl
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Default  Posted: 11:49 PM, January 7th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ahem. I'm here.

You can all simmer down now.


Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mahatma Gandhi

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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 11:55 PM, January 7th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had forgotten about Pink Carnation. Glad for the update, thanks.

Still miss Marzi and wish Lisa would come back and update us.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 1966 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, January 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

island_girl, 'fess up, have you been lurking?

You'll be pleased to know I'm just as neurotic as ever. It's comforting to know some things never change.

I'll add GroundZero to the list of "where'd they go?" Always thought she was a brave soul, being a FWS that swam the General Forum waters.

[This message edited by OnceInALifetime at 12:23 AM, January 8th (Tuesday)]


BH, now divorced

Posts: 3012 | Registered: Oct 2009
island_girl
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Default  Posted: 12:30 AM, January 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

nope, OIAL, I just have impeccable timing. :) I am glad to know that you haven't lost that neurotic feeling though. I can't imagine how you'd live with yourself otherwise. (for the record, I'm a fan that your neurosis led you to edit that 3 sentence post just 3 minutes after you posted it).

I'm connected with GZ on the book of faces and last time we talked, she was doing great!


Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mahatma Gandhi

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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 1:07 AM, January 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hah, what you didn't know is that I edited it *twice* within three minutes.


BH, now divorced

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need_hope
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Default  Posted: 5:35 AM, January 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CluelessBlonde? Has anybody seen her?

There was also the one poster (I wish I could remember her name) who was posting about how she thought her WH had possibly tried to hire someone to kill her. And then she stopped posting. Does anybody remember her name and has anyone heard from her?


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.


Posts: 1709 | Registered: May 2009 | From: East Coast
island_girl
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, January 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oial, if you needed to edit it twice, I'm surprised you didn't edit your 3 sentences 3 times in 3 minutes. Just to stick with the threme.


Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mahatma Gandhi

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stupidstupidme
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Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, January 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am friends with B+ and Willow on FB. They both are around and seem to be well :)

I often wonder about CB. Kidsbane was close with her here, and I recently asked her if she's heard from her, and she hasn't. I really wish she'd check in


Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
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WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, January 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

island girl,
So good to hear from you! I have wondered about you.. and so many of the others mentioned.

I trust if anyone had heard from New York Jerry, we'd know...

Wolf


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, January 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

island_girl, would you edit your post please?

You had a typo, and it's really bothering me (threme).


BH, now divorced

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Fireball72
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, January 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been wondering about iwantamiracle for a while. Hope she's doing well.


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I may not say much, but I'm always happy to be of help to anyone in need. :)

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aesir
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, January 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

island_girl, would you edit your post please?
You had a typo, and it's really bothering me (threme).


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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Helen of Troy
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Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, January 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm concerned about SkeerdButHopeful.

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 5:32 PM, January 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

need_hope,
You're thinking of BetrayedByLove. She's alive and doing as best as she can. She stopped coming to SI due to OW stalking issues. She tried to get a PPO against her, but the case failed. :(


Failure is success if we learn from it.

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persevere
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, January 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great update to see that some of those who were actively posting when I first joined almost two years ago are alive and well. Life does go on after infidelity and SI offers so much support and a whole new family in some respects.


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4160 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
island_girl
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Default  Posted: 8:15 PM, January 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

But I left that extra "r" there just for you!


Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mahatma Gandhi

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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, January 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, I get it know:

three -> threme

Play on words? Please tell me you meant it that way. Then I'll be able to stop chewing my nails.


BH, now divorced

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island_girl
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Default  Posted: 12:23 AM, January 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep. It was supposed to be a very bad pun...

And WWW, it's good to see you on here still too!


Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mahatma Gandhi

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need_hope
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Default  Posted: 7:45 AM, January 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks little turtle. I've been worried about her but couldn't remember the user name.


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.


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