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User Topic: Who is wondering about folks we haven't seen in a while?
trumanshow
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Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, January 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

also-from what I've noticed-the banned members received warning(s) that they then ignored...


Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.

The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed


Posts: 1752 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Charlotte, NC
cass
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, January 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I sometimes have thoughts about

amott - I think she was heading for divorce. She had three beautiful little girls. I hope she is doing well.

betterdaysahead - I think she needed to take break from SI. I hope she is making good progress too. Anyone hear from her?

jooby - I wonder if she was able to reconcile with her H?

wymylady used to post from time to time but not seen anything for a while.

howcouldhe1 - haven't heard or seen anything from her for ages. Hope she is thriving.

I miss simplydevastated and wish her well.

Oh I hope dear Crossbow wasn't banned :(

Basicguy gave me great support when I first came here.

Oh and I really miss 'Chief'

[This message edited by cass at 4:26 PM, January 10th (Thursday)]


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4965 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
hill
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Default  Posted: 7:05 PM, January 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been around this week after another hobby forum I frequent had a thread about infidelity. Made me wonder about old "friends" here.

Mostly LizXJS. It was one of her posts that finally got me to register here and post.

I was sad to see JoePike is having some trouble in his new marriage- I was really rooting for him. I hope all is worked through and they find happiness :)

At this point I am taking long breaks from SI, occasionally popping in. However, I find when I visit here I mentally go back to that pretty painful time. I'm very happy in my new life and I don't want that energy coming back, so not sure how much longer I can lurk. But I do like to see the old familiar "faces."

[This message edited by hill at 7:05 PM, January 10th (Thursday)]


Posts: 3153 | Registered: Sep 2006
Edie
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, January 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@ Cass,

Crossbow doesn't look very banned to me:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=478594&AP=21&HL=



Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5120 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
cayc
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, January 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Has anyone heard from ElisabethAnn? Or know how she is? She hasn't posted in a year.


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3104 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, January 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Elisabeth Ann was banned due to making multiple generalizations and attacking a mod.

Posts: 35376 | Registered: Mar 2011
Cookie7088
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Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, January 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I still miss Marzipan....her little "story" things were soooo funny...made you forget your problems for a brief minute! I never forget "three cheese lasagna"..."suck a golf ball though a garden hose"....and "soulmate shmoopies"....

...Oh, those were the days!!

[This message edited by Cookie7088 at 3:08 PM, January 13th (Sunday)]


Posts: 667 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: U.S.
jamiep
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Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, January 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

whatever happened to damncutekitty? her posts always made me laugh


Me: BS
Him: WH
Together 8 years, even surviving 19 months of separation while he was in Iraq
D-day: 5/16/07 (12 hours after I gave birth to our second child)
5/17/07- I kicked him out

D filed on 7/5/07. FINALLY final on 10/13/09


Posts: 310 | Registered: May 2007 | From: Tennessee
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, January 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I miss simplydevastated and wish her well

She's doing ok. We just talked on the phone last night.

Circumstances are not optimal, but she's still got her lovely sense of humor and great big heart.


If life is just a series of ridiculous attempts to be alive, you're a hero. - J. Winger

Posts: 17527 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, January 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

damncutekitty was in the D/S forum today.

Posts: 35376 | Registered: Mar 2011
completeshock
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, January 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Has anyone heard from TrainerCarrie?


Sometimes you have to forget what you want and remember what you deserve.

Posts: 1740 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: East Coast
cass
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Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, January 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Jrazz for reassurance about simplydevastated. I'm glad she's doing ok.

Anyone hear from Lost in Space? She had beautiful sons. I hope she is doing ok too.


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4965 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
TrainerCarrie
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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, January 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey! I heard someone was asking about me :)

I'm doing good, I still read from time to time. Not dating anyone, just focusing on me and Teeny who is now 4! I'm losing weight! 24 lbs so far. I can't venture into the other forums too much. I feel it kept me from moving forward, but I check on this one often. I pray for you too, even if you don't do the prayer thing.

Besides being unemployed, which has been a mixed blessing and in the middle of a lawsuit with my former employer. Life is good.


Sometimes giving up something you want is the kindest thing you can do for yourself.

Never, ever date your neighbor.


Posts: 2820 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Almost Heaven...West Virginia.
TrainerCarrie
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, January 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you are on FB pm me and we can be friends :) and I always read my PM's on here. I just don't post much.

[This message edited by TrainerCarrie at 7:32 PM, January 18th (Friday)]


Sometimes giving up something you want is the kindest thing you can do for yourself.

Never, ever date your neighbor.


Posts: 2820 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Almost Heaven...West Virginia.
Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, January 19th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Has anyone spoken with unfound lately? I think of her often. She's who I want to grow up to be; she has inspired me to be a better person


Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/33 The kidlets: DS13, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
Finally, completely R'd
Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25

Posts: 11563 | Registered: Dec 2009
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, January 19th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I miss unfound and hope she's doing well...she is one of the nicest people ever to come to SI


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, January 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great to see you check in, TC!

I miss unfound, too!

Another MIA person I just thought about: Squiffle.

Please check in, oh wise and funny one?

Wolf


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


Posts: 8233 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: midwest
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, January 23rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When we asked Squiffle privately to please stop making fun of the SI members on her blog, she requested her account here to be disabled.


Posts: 35376 | Registered: Mar 2011
weimylady
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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, January 23rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@cass

I'm still here... Lurking as per usual
:)

Thank you for remembering me!

Wei


I edit to correct my mistakes - and there are usually mistakes ....

Posts: 232 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: England
WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, January 23rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my, Jo2love! That makes me sad (that she woul do that). I'm so glad the mods look out for the folks here at SI.
Wolf


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


Posts: 8233 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: midwest
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