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User Topic: St. Louis G2G
Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, dang, maca...was hoping to meet you! I'm in St. Chuck.

But congrats to DD! Yay!!!!


I'm Happy, not Sad!

Posts: 1171 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
blakesteele
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, May 11th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

G2G is new to me. Not sure if my wife would be willing to go...can just one of the spouses attend or is that taboo and asking for trouble?

Just looking for a little guidance here.

thanks,
blakesteele


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3756 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, May 11th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Blakesteele,

Everyone is welcome to a G2G, couples, singles, one person from the relationship (maybe the other has commitments and can't get away). Whatever you and your wife decide is good. Both of you will be welcomed... just like on SI.

I hope you decide to go.. there is nothing that compares to meeting (and putting a face to the name) and feeling the warmth from these boards in real life.

I can promise, you won't regret it.

Hugs,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5161 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
persevere
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, May 11th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Blakesteele, if you, alone or with your spouse, have the opportunity to attend, I can promise you won't regret it. I can't wait for my next g2g - wish I could make this one!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4562 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, May 11th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

blakesteele, Kajem pretty much summed it up.

It's pretty cool meeting real life SIers. Mr. and I have been to 1 "official" G2G and a mini with a couple of friends. Both times were pretty awesome.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6255 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
blakesteele
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Default  Posted: 5:55 AM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My concern is this....my wife has told me several times she is done with SI...doesnt need to read what she already knows (from advice from other WS to what I post on here).

I find SI really helpful...gave her my password so that she could find my posts easily...thought that was beneficial. I just changed my password due to a really bad experience I had with her (not SI related, just her committment level to me and our M)..and it is probably the right choice. She can join and follow my posts easily through that format if she desires. again, she has said she doesnt desire to come here.

I dont think she would be up to attending...but I will ask her. The 18th doesnt work for us due to a family event...but am interested in attending one sometime...maybe.

I say maybe because I am really concerned about bonding to another BS...a BW to be exact.

I was enthused to see Sissoon was coming...as I just posted I would love to share a meal with him sometime.

I love my family...just concerned that coming alone to a G2G event would be dangerous for me. Since my wifes A I have viewed other women in a very different light...as a real possibility for me...no longer just in fantasy play (even that I NOW wonder is as docile as I once thought it was).

Thanks for educating me on what a G2G event is...just found out about them less then a week ago...and in less then a week it is in a very easy driving distance from our home.

[This message edited by blakesteele at 6:02 AM, May 12th (Sunday)]


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3756 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping.

Has everyone one on the list gotten a PM yet? If not then PM me.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52324 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Testing....testing...is this thing on?

Soooo who's excited!?!? TWO and a half days y'all!


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6255 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 6:25 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't forget to take lots of food pics.

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JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Speaking of food, picnic input. Please. Discuss.


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We're flexible, but I think it'll be easier all around if we each bring our own, counting on Fri and Sat nite dinners and Sunday brunch for the flavor of St. Louis.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10166 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 7:09 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^ I agree


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6255 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 7:58 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok. Aubrie, could you call me when convenient? I have finals today but I am planning to wrap up the details today and tomorrow.


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Will do.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6255 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 8:06 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
PippaPeach6
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Countdown - 2 days!


Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009
Reconciled

Honey Badger don't care. - Randall


Posts: 386 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Flyover chic
JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was able to make a reservation for 8 for Friday's dinner. They want to know ASAP if there will be more than 8 as it is a graduation weekend. Please post here as soon as you can with a yes and a number of people if you will go to the Friday dinner.


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes. Two here.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6255 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes. One


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52324 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
PippaPeach6
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Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, two, but we may be late - around 7:00-7:30 - depending on Friday traffic . . . Hopefully, we'll be going opposite most of it.


Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009
Reconciled

Honey Badger don't care. - Randall


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