Just wanted to revisit this topic for a second to add in a quote from my BS.
It was something like: If our marriage ends, know that it wasn't because of any of the details that came out, it was because of the lies about them.
I keep playing that over and over in my head, because in my mind I was always focused on what detail would be too harsh to deal with - what would be the one that pushed her over the edge - the deal breaker.
I just thought that she worded that incredibly well and it is still sinking into my head.WS (me) 45- Dday was 9/20/2012
Wife 41 (sodamnlost on SI)
Together 9 years, married 5
Stepdad to 6 amazing kids (22, 21, 16, 15, 12, 10)
Trying wicked hard - never giving up.