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User Topic: Oct G2G Michigan (pics start on pg 19)
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 1:08 PM, May 11th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, Mama.

LD's stepfather is elderly and living alone (his mom died almost 10 years ago). FIL's health is declining and he was living in an unhealthy environment, not taking care of himself and his health rapidly declining. LD and his sister got him into an assisted living facility. So far so good but there is so much to attend to, and with him there and us here and nobody down there to help it's tough. Plus, now they are in the process of getting the apartment cleaned up. There was mold, filth, etc. It was unlivable. They had no idea how bad it was until they got down there. Very sad.

Anyway, that's what's going on. Thanks for your concern.

Our hearts will always be with the MI g2g. That was our first one years ago and it had a huge impact on us! We <3 BR and WH5!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, May 11th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very sorry to hear of your Dad's/FIL's old living conditions, but happy to hear they've improved.

We're 50-50 on attending, so I guess that makes us 'maybe'.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10165 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, May 23rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping back to the first page...October will be here before we know it!


Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/33 The kidlets: DS13, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
Finally, completely R'd
Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, May 23rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Looking forward to it. First page needs to be updated.


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4183 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, May 23rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Okay I think its updated now?
Did I miss anybody?

Hugs and to Leccden and AN, sorry you're dealing with that situation.


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 43
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

Posts: 10696 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:09 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, BR.

Hate to drive you nuts but we have talked again and decided we're most likely, probably, definitely going to try our darndest to come.

So....we are a DEFINITE MAYBE!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:25 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hey BR, I looked over your list... k9 and NIK are on both yes and maybe. Mama of 3 said they are definitely coming and sisoon is a maybe. and looks like AN & L are now a maybe.

Is the date definite? Could update that too...


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4183 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm a DEFINATE. And I'm bringing as many Minnesota and Wisconsin peeps with me as I can.

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6563 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thought it was time for another bump


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4183 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

£700 return flights.....

Think I'll have a drink for you all over here instead!


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 607 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can I move up to the probably list? And K9 - we'll have to talk about carpooling.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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cjonesjag
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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Put me on the maybe list..I'd love to see everyone again!


Me (BS):50
Him(WTFH):51 Married: 05/26/2002
DD#1: 09/2005 (EA) DD#2: 09/2006
Mini-DDays: Many. Mostly online
DIVORCED 10/20/10
It's not what you've got, it's what you give.
It ain't the life you choose, it's the life you live

Posts: 6400 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Michigan
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Updated again after WH5 updated yesterday... s/b caught up now


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 43
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

Posts: 10696 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAAAAAAHHOOOOOOOOOO


Anyone from MN and WI that intend to go get in touch with me.

We be carpooling with our Cheese Hats and Viking Helmets!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Of course the braids that go with the Viking Helmets are optional but always a nice "fashion forward" touch.

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6563 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is it October yet? Please???


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It would have been except for some folks named Caesar


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52320 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stupid Caesars.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

T/J - if you want a really nasty view of Julius, read Robert Harris's novels about Cicero - Imperium, Conspirata (Lustrum in the UK), and ? (due out this year). End T/J

Personally, it's the Vikings stuff that makes me wonder....

[This message edited by sisoon at 2:29 PM, June 17th (Monday)]


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10165 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We're done with July (close enough). Only August and September to go!!!!!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

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