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User Topic: trauma/life altering events shortly before dday?
cinnamongurl
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Default  Posted: 11:00 PM, March 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you syzy. I feel the same way about the BS's here. They have given me so much insight into how my own BSO is thinking and feeling and how deeply he is hurting. Its made me look at myself a little more objectively and for once see where I need to change, and how to come about that change, and most importantly, who I change for. Its got to be me. Before reading here, I was under the impression that I needed to become who BSO wanted because that was the only way to heal... boy was I off with that one! I needed to want to change for me, not just to get him to stay or buy sometime, but because I truly understand now, that I have to want to change before I can actually change.


Me: 36 fWGF He: 35 BBF and my heart
Together 18 yrs. "You were sick, but now you're well again, and there's work to do."
Kurt Vonnegut



Posts: 506 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: home with my heart.
cinnamongurl
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Default  Posted: 11:04 PM, March 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^ sorry if this is worded awkwardly, its past my bedtime and I should br sleeping.


Me: 36 fWGF He: 35 BBF and my heart
Together 18 yrs. "You were sick, but now you're well again, and there's work to do."
Kurt Vonnegut



Posts: 506 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: home with my heart.
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