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User Topic: 5 months today
longroadahead22
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Concerned  Posted: 10:19 PM, March 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tonight my wife said something that made me feel so little... "It's been 5 months tomorrow that I made you dump your girlfriend". Dear god how f*#ked up is that statement, from my W. damn I was so unhealthy and still am for the most part. Workin with IC/MC, working thru FOO issues, fighting thru depression, digging deep and rebuilding a better me. But that wouldn't have happened if 5 months ago my BS caught me in my A by finding ILY to the OW on my phone. Then TT the hell out of her for damn near 4 months! Main I've done just about everything wrong and yet she is still here. And each day is a blessing for me but torture for her! Sorry no real questions just shameful recap


WS (Me): 26 y/o
BS (Her): 26 y/o (MandoBando)
Relationship: M for 4 years, a 20 month old son and a 8 month old son.
D-Day: 10/23/12
Working towards R...

Despite the fact that i am an ass hole, horrible father, and horrible husband; i LOVE and


Posts: 76 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: Toledo, OH
BaxtersBFF
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Member # 26859
Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, March 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What was your response to her?


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6097 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
cinnamongurl
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Default  Posted: 10:27 PM, March 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, what did you say to her?
(BBF, you picked the thought right from my brain!)


Me: 36 fWGF He: 35 BBF and my heart
Together 18 yrs. "You were sick, but now you're well again, and there's work to do."
Kurt Vonnegut



Posts: 506 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: home with my heart.
longroadahead22
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Member # 37328
Default  Posted: 7:19 AM, March 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That I was sorry I ever wondered away from ER an that I'm committed to fixing myself and by extension fixing our relationship. That I was willing to fight for us and that I here for her if she wants to talk more, which she didn't. She rolled over in bed and didn't say anything more, but I hugged her and tried to show that I was there for her


WS (Me): 26 y/o
BS (Her): 26 y/o (MandoBando)
Relationship: M for 4 years, a 20 month old son and a 8 month old son.
D-Day: 10/23/12
Working towards R...

Despite the fact that i am an ass hole, horrible father, and horrible husband; i LOVE and


Posts: 76 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: Toledo, OH
BaxtersBFF
♂ Member
Member # 26859
Default  Posted: 7:32 AM, March 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My BW wanted me to fight for her. I can still picture how she looked when she said it. Fighting for her did not look how I thought it would look, but it did make a difference.


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6097 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
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