I would not make another attempt at an NC email/text/call.
She has asked you not to contact her anymore.
I would be making sure as best you can that NC is still in place. There are so many different way to break NC that it is hard to track everything, just do the best you can.
[This message edited by hitbyatruck at 11:13 AM, March 25th (Monday)]
Because clearly they can't be trusted.
For me, the NC was actually initiated from OM and his BW. She insisted on NC and was there when OM voice mailed fWW to say it was over and to never contact each other again. I was informed a week later and have also thought about having fWW sent something so I could be a part of that. However I was able to confirm the NC with OMWS - we were all "friends".
Has WH opened up all his email, facebook and other accounts? I think his actions forward might provide some insight as well.
Maybe I'm just paranoid, but have so many reasons to be exactly that!
If my WW was hiding anything from me, that would be it... End of story, just couldn't deal with it anymore.
I said to her once...
If you guys were just friends, you wouldn't have to hide your friendship from me.
He should have nothing to hide from you.
He deleted his old email account and opened a new one. I later mentioned, and he realized as well, that "just friends" was NOT NC. He was nice enough to suggest we open a joint email account specifically to send her an "official" NC letter then close it because he didn't want her having his email address. This was a couple months after DDay#1. I don't think it's ever too late if that's what you need and I think your WS would understand.
Anyway, point is, I know what it feels like to not know what was said in that final text message and it does cross my mind at times.
Hang in there!