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User Topic: Background and a mojo request
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, March 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Late to the party, but adding MOJO to the mix and hugs.

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5070 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, March 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, NIK, that's a lot to deal with.

sending mucho mojo your way!!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2589 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, March 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25310 | Registered: Aug 2011
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 5:56 PM, March 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK, Count me in for the unfinished points. Keep breathing. Stay centered.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10070 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
bitchboots
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Default  Posted: 3:58 PM, March 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just saw this. (((NIK)))

You have more on your plate than any one person should in their lifetime, let alone all at the same time.

Sending mojo, hugs, good energy and positive thoughts your way girl.

More hugs....


Me: BS
DDay 4/27/2012---3 weeks after our 10 year anniversary.
Second DDay--1/2/2013--R is over

~~~~Finding my moxie~~~~
"May your past be the sound of your feet upon the ground"...FUN


Posts: 333 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Dallas
uncertainone
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Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, March 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just saw this. Sending positive thoughts.


Me: 37

'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth


Posts: 6795 | Registered: Mar 2010
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, March 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25310 | Registered: Aug 2011
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, March 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo for you today!!


I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown

Posts: 17309 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, March 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo for you NIK and family.


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2670 | Registered: Jan 2010
gma56
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, March 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Nik and family))

Mojo and prayers for the other plates you have that are over flowing.

Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20371 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, April 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just got an update on the timing for DD's residential treatment placement. There are two girls ahead of her on the waiting list, and several of the current female residents who they were hoping would be ready to go home are struggling lately, so now it looks like it will be late May before DD gets in.

I'm struggling with that news. That means another 6 weeks of white-knuckling here with DD, trying to keep things under control. I'm sure we will make it, but I know it will take a massive toll on both me and DD.

Could use a bump of mojo for those struggling girls to help them regain their footing so they can complete their programs and return home in a healthy way.

And any extra patience you can send to me and DD would be GREATLY appreciated.

[This message edited by nowiknow23 at 7:21 PM, April 12th (Friday)]


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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dameia
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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, April 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

Sorry to hear about the bad news. I will be sending prayers and mojo your way (and for all the girls in the program and, of course, your DD).


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers precisely what it has promised. Betrayal, though ... betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope. ~Steven Deitz


Posts: 1137 | Registered: Jul 2012
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, April 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, NIK .
Sending a ton of mojo your way. I hope you can continue to get support from your loved ones and can find some peace between the difficult moments.

Hugs to you.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 37574 | Registered: Sep 2007
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, April 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending extra mojo.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52188 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, April 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) & (((NIKlet)))

(((struggling girls)))

Mojo for all... is your XH still staying with you too?


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, April 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Nik & DD)))

I'm sorry. I hope that late May gets moved up to April.
Sending super mojo.


Posts: 35156 | Registered: Mar 2011
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:15 PM, April 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

More mojo ... tons! (((NIK)))


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17390 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, April 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) continuing to send mojo, strength, patience, peace. and seriously, I'll send chocolate too, if you need.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12146 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, April 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

.. is your XH still staying with you too?

No. He was excused from his duties after about 3 nights.

Thank. Heavens.

He lives less than 3 miles from here, so if he's needed, he can be here in a matter of minutes. Fortunately, he hasn't been needed yet (knock wood).


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25310 | Registered: Aug 2011
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, April 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And thank you, everyone, for the additional mojo, hugs, and offers of chocolate.

I feel like I've been a sucking black hole of need lately.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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