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Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 1:23 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't even think of asking WH because he IS a polygraph administrator!! Not even an option here...


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1183 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
RockyMtn
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Default  Posted: 7:01 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, Phoenix! You've got no options. Is he a private poly administrator? I mean, is he the type of person who sees waywards all the time? The guy we are considering using says affairs are a big part of his business.

Yaka, I think its fine for a WH to be nervous and embarrassed and concerned about accuracy. It isn't easy to do - and a LOT rides on then passing. So, even if they know they have told the whole truth, there has got to be fear that something is going to go wrong and you could lose your family. I mean, WSs are human even if they are remorseful.

But - willing is the key word. Has to be willing or its a red flag. At worst, its a flag that there is still lying...at best, its a flag they aren't really all that remorseful if they won't do this to help healing.

[This message edited by RockyMtn at 7:01 AM, June 13th (Thursday)]


Me, BS, 30s
Him, WS, 30s, Steppenwolf
Kids: Yep
D-Day 1: September 2011, 6 week EA
D-Day 2: January 2013, discovered EA was a PA; there was another PA in 2010. All TT.
Goal = serenity.

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Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 7:34 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is law enforcement but has also done private as well as a consultant, i.e., criminal and civil.


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


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