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User Topic: I Need SI Prayers and Positive Thoughts
gma56
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Default  Posted: 5:08 PM, April 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

UPDATE :
Great news today. Nate is responding really well. No infections so he's going home today or tomorrow !
I haven't had a chance to speak directly to Mom but I'm sure she is relieved with his progress. He's eating and very alert but DSS didn't know what his treatment plan was because it's been readjusted.

This is an Easter blessing...
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20373 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, April 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is an Easter blessing

Indeed!


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21051 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 9:26 PM, April 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad for the Good News!!!

Keep us posted...

Continued prayers!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24511 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, April 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm keeping him on my prayer list!

But I love to hear good news and Blessings..

Keep up the great work Nate!!!

gma - give him some extra hugs from us.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5083 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 12:32 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

still praying for him and all of you :) I'm glad he may be going home soon though, that will help so much for morale :)


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 867 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
stillhere09
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Default  Posted: 4:45 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I just saw this thread - So sorry this happened, and so glad that it is going well. I'll be keeping Nathan and his family in my prayers, and you too, gma.


Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M


Posts: 3020 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Ohio
JustDone
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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope Nate's home and feeling better.

Thinking of you all...

Hugs!


Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.

Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.


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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinkin about you and family lately. Glad things are looking up!!!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 43
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

Posts: 10678 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks gma for the update, I am so happy for all of you that things are going well.

Sending continued strength and healing thoughts to you all.

((((NATE))))

((((DSS, fiancee, gma))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2587 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21116 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
gma56
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Cool  Posted: 12:11 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't say enough about the Lucille Packard Children's Hospital. Nate LOVES it there and didn't want to leave.

They (hospital staff)have been so terrific on how they communicate to Nate about the procedures they are doing and what they are for, telling him at his 6 yr old level. They have definitely taken away much of the fear of the unknown. Mom is even doing better.

I told her I would stay with Nate so she can have some Mom time. Baby shopping, hair, or a massage would be good.

Again I thank-you SIers for all your support !


Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a great update! Continuing to hold Nate and your family in my thoughts, gma.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful update, gma! (And yes, they are awesome there. )

Thinking of you all...


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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redvixen
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Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gma, I'm sorry I've been away for a bit and missed this..I am so sorry Nathan was so sick, and I am elated to hear he's doing much better! Keeping him in my prayers!


Me, BS Him WS early 40's at the start, cheated before and after cancer diagnosis.
Two A's, two OW's, online looking for sex partners, two false R's.
Threw him out in January 2009.
Divorce final March 30th, 2010

XWH died Dec. 2010


Posts: 4104 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: New Jersey
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17391 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
yewtree
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Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, April 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news GMA. Enjoy your time with Nate!


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


Posts: 4665 | Registered: Oct 2007
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:49 AM, April 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((GMA and family))))

What a wonderful update.

Sending prayers and good thoughts.


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ArkLaMiss
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, April 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for all, Gma included. Hang in there.


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

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hexed
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Default  Posted: 10:44 AM, April 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thinking of Nate today. Hope things continue to go well


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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