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User Topic: I Need SI Prayers and Positive Thoughts
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, March 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers sent. (((gma and family)))


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7781 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, March 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Nathan)))


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
"Not my monkeys. Not my circus." ~Polish proverb (<~~~ as a codependent person, this comes in handy sometimes!)

Posts: 3882 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
hexed
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Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, March 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

more prayers going out to him tonight.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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uncertainone
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Default  Posted: 1:36 AM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no! Sending thoughts and prayers.


Me: 37

'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth


Posts: 6795 | Registered: Mar 2010
timeforchange
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Default  Posted: 1:48 AM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry GMA that it looks like cancer.

I have 2 friends with sons who are currently being treated for leukemia.

One is 2.5 years post diagnosis and the other 1 year. Both are doing really well.

Childhood Cancer is awful, unfair and sucks, but some types of Leukemia are highly treatable. With survival rates of 90%. Although of course the treatment plan over 3 years is hellish.

Please don't lose hope. I will be sending prayers up for Nathan.

IF Nathan is facing a long term critical illness his parents may find it helpful to set up a Caringbridge site.
It is a website where they can leave news about Nathan and people can leave messages of support. It saves the parents having to re-tell he story and deliver updates again and again to different people.

Sending you all hugs and prayers.


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
incredulous
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Default  Posted: 7:25 AM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Keeping you, Nathan, and the whole family in my prayers.

(((gma)))


me: BW, now 52;
DD now 16 (adopted by me as single mom, so XWH was "Dad")
married: June, 2005, together since July, 2002
d-day: 10/21/07;
Divorced July, 2008 and he never looked back...

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 7:37 AM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((gma & family))) Healing thoughts to you all.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, gma. I'm so sorry.

Continued prayers for your family.


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21032 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:55 AM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((gma & family))
Many, many prayers headed your way. I'm so sorry to read this.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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yewtree
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((GMA)))
I'm thinking of you and Nathan today.


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


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Pentup
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Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ditto Timeforchange's entire post.
Praying for all of you


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6429 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, honey. What a scary time this must be for all of you.

It sounds like Nathan is in a wonderful place if it does turn out to be leukemia. You and your family are surrounded by more love, support, prayers and well wishes than you could ever imagine. Hang in there. Sending you strength.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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Crescita
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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs and prayers coming your way.

Posts: 3263 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
peridot
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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gma, I just seen this. I am so sorry. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for you all

((gma & family))


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was thinking leukemia after your second post.

I have been praying since you started the thread.

Prayers for everyone.

He's in good hands gma, I will continue to pray.


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


Posts: 5235 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland
Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh man,
I am so sorry. I ahd a cousin have that and he has been cancer free for years now.
I will pray for you and your family and mostly for little Nathan, no child should have to endure that.


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

Posts: 2660 | Registered: Aug 2011
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Poor sweet baby and everyone who loves him.

I've heard a lot of good things about Lucille Packard (@Stanford.)

Will be keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16426 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Gma))) Praying for good news...

Keeping you and your family in my thoughts...


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24350 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh gma, I just saw this.

I am praying hard...and sending SI mojo...

oh God please don't let it be cancer and if it is, let it be treatable and let Nathan get through this with his strong spirit and courage.

Sending love to you to gma - you have endured so much yet you are always there for others...please know we're here for you!

Many hugs,

Lala


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 26
5yo GS & 18 mo. GD & GB #4 due 8/14(DD30) and 2yo GD(DD26). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

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