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wantreallove
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((gma))) I will be praying for you, Nathan, and your family.


Me,BS 32
SA fWH (masame5) 34
Married 12 yrs 6 kids age 17-1, and expecting #7
D-day 10/9/12 (caught him through fb chat) D-day #2 11/19/12 thru 11/21/12 (found out about all the rest of the A's.)
8 AP, 12-7-12 WH sober date

Posts: 196 | Registered: Nov 2012
Edith
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Gma, I am so sorry to hear this. Praying for little Nate and your family.

E.


Lies are manipulations. Always.

Posts: 379 | Registered: Feb 2013
itainteasy
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Member # 31094
Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for you all...

One of my best friends married a guy who had leukemia when he was a child. He's 34. They have 2 kids, and he's been in remission for a very long time

The same girl has a younger cousin who was diagnosed with leukemia when she was 5. Lydia is now in high school, and she plays hockey. With boys.
She's also in remission.

It's very scary to face, but it can be treatable!

I'll keep praying for your family, Gma.


Posts: 3370 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
gma56
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Helpless  Posted: 5:05 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They've diagnosed for sure Nate has Leukemia, it's confirmed. Mom and DSS will be meeting with a team to learn more about the type he has and what options there will be for treatments.

Thank-you for all your thoughts and prayers.
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20370 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
hexed
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Default  Posted: 5:08 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((gma and loved ones))

let us know how it goes. many types of leukemia are very treatable. i'm so sorry this is happening to nate.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8440 | Registered: Apr 2008
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry, Gma.

Prayers and healing vibes are heading Nate's way }}}}}}


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7996 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
tired girl
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Default  Posted: 7:15 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry gma. Prayers and thoughts going out to you and your family and little Nate.
(((())))


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

Posts: 4831 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: az
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((gma, nathan, & family)))

Sending prayers.


Posts: 11651 | Registered: Mar 2008
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((gma and family)))
He can beat this.


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 43
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

Posts: 10674 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for the confirmation... I will continue to keep Nathan and all of your family in our prayers.


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 867 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Will be holding all of you up in prayer...

Leukemia is treatable... I hope they can knock it out and he goes on to live a happy long life.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24502 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
timeforchange
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Default  Posted: 11:24 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry that leukemia has been confirmed.

I will be praying for Nathan.

Here on SI over the years you have shown yourself to be compassionate, wise, loving and supportive. Nathan is lucky to have such a grandma to love and support him during the next months.

Nathan can fight this and beat this.
And I believe you will along with his parents and step father will be a true rock to him.

When my son was little we had numerous hospital stays. In a strange way those long nights and days together where all my focus was on him 24/7 contain some of the sweetest memories of just being together and talking.

hope that among the fear and treatment Nathan and his grandma also get to build sweet memories of togetherness and closeness too.


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
yewtree
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Default  Posted: 12:08 AM, March 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers and strength to you all gma. Stay positive!


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


Posts: 4659 | Registered: Oct 2007
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 7:27 AM, March 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh gma, I am so sorry. Poor sweet little thing.

You have been so caring and compassionate to others, this little guy is so blessed to have you in his life.

Will be praying for all of you.

((((gma and fam)))


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7056 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, March 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((gma, family, & Nathan)))))


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS & 20 mo. GD & GB #4 due 8/15(DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 5058 | Registered: May 2007
confused615
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, March 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im so sorry. Prayers being said.


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,10
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciling.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7381 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
confused615
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, March 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im so sorry. Prayers being said.


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,10
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciling.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7381 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, March 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tell Nate to let us know what he named it so we can all help him kick its ass.

Continued prayers.


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21048 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, March 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you hugs, positive mojo, and strength for the road ahead...

(((gma and family)))


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3595 | Registered: Oct 2011
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, March 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending continued healing thoughts and strength to all of you.

I'm so sorry for this news, I'm hoping that they can come up with an effective treatment plan for him. You are all in my thoughts, please keep us posted when you can.

In the meantime, more

((((((Nate, fiancee, DSS, gma))))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

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