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User Topic: t/j boundaries and self respect
5454real
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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, March 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Or the helicopter!


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2568 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
hardlessons
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Default  Posted: 4:36 PM, March 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3CquMO3vJvo

For those that need a car/helicopter or cheesy mustache fix


Me WH
Wife Tired Girl
3 adult sons
"a wayward...annnnd just a tad betrayed."

Posts: 880 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: Arizona
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, March 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If I knew how to put that Higgins from Magnum PI clapping gif I would.
Oh, this made me laugh! I think I would much rather see Higgins clapping as opposed to Orson Welles.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9408 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, March 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What needs to happen is the WS getting healthy, the BS needs to get healthy and the marriage needs to get healthy. Very rarely do I see all three worked on and this happen. Maybe two out of three but rarely all three.

This. It's all about healthy. I think sometimes that healthy and boundaries go hand-in-hand, and it might be worth exploring what your concept of healthy is. It will make understanding boundaries a lot easier. Consider boundaries your access two, after healthy.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
"Not my monkeys. Not my circus." ~Polish proverb (<~~~ as a codependent person, this comes in handy sometimes!)

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