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User Topic: I don't want to be on the bus!!
GrievingMommy
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, April 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think I need to start drinking.


Me - Now 36 y/o
WXH: Now 45 y/o and 18+ hrs away -NPD asshole now onto wife #3.
My sweeties: 5 yr old B/G twins. 90% custody (or more) since 14 months old.
D-Day 4/4/10 PA('s?) & EA's - D'd 7/11

Posts: 1691 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Upper Midwest
tesla
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, April 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Drinking helps.
So does lots and lots of running.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4610 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
soverybetrayed
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, April 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was on the bus so much during the marriage that I don't remember what it is like to not be on the bus! It has been years for me and will be a few more till I even date so I guess I should be glad the ex never wanted sex. Frustrated in the marriage and out of the marriage...


Me-53
DDay 10/16/2010 DDay2 5/22/2011
Divorced 8/23/2012
I will get stronger and better but no matter where he goes, there he is....

Posts: 1206 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Texas
GrievingMommy
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Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, April 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I better not start drinking.....I might not stop.


Me - Now 36 y/o
WXH: Now 45 y/o and 18+ hrs away -NPD asshole now onto wife #3.
My sweeties: 5 yr old B/G twins. 90% custody (or more) since 14 months old.
D-Day 4/4/10 PA('s?) & EA's - D'd 7/11

Posts: 1691 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Upper Midwest
torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, April 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Exercis made it worse for me! I could not believe the sensation. Also, I get lots and lots of offers which makes it worse.

I am not a FWB or casual sex person either. I can say that during my M, even during the years after 18 we had it at least 3 times per week. Sunday afternoons were so wonderful.

Any how, I hear ya! Oh, so ya just have to stop thinking about it....that's the trick!


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
Pass
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Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, April 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Was reading this thread earlier today and decided to take the advice to get a massage for the human contact. It was lovely. I walked out of there relaxed and happy.

And no ... it wasn't THAT kind of massage!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1837 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
ManBearDivorce
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Default  Posted: 12:05 AM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HAHA! Actually exercise for me is a replacement for it. If I feel the need to I go for a run an I tend to forget about that thing. Helps me get tired and go to sleep too.

Drinking for me just ups the itch. Drunk text some people and regret it the next morning with apologies. LOL


Posts: 339 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: St.Paul Minnesota
Happydays
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Default  Posted: 12:32 AM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was on the bus so much during the marriage that I don't remember what it is like to not be on the bus!

Same here! I was out of the country before d day and nothing after that.


BH 33
FWW 32
DS: 3 year old.
Dday 10/14/2012
No remorse so:
Divorced 02/15/2013. No alimony, no CS, got apartment. Won all battles and mind games off the courts.

Posts: 294 | Registered: Mar 2013
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 8:06 AM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Drinking for me just ups the itch. Drunk text some people and regret it the next morning with apologies. LOL

I also have this problem.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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