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Default  Posted: 2:09 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have all the tests I took with each of my kids. I saved them as I tend to save anything that is special to me.

FWS: Him (38)/BS: Me (35)
DD, 9 & DS, 3
D-Day: 3.22.09 EA admitted
OW:a very sad, pathetic excuse for a woman.
Status: Forgiven
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Posts: 118 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Massachusetts
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok first off it's like 5 drops of pee on them, second urine is sterile, if you are healthy.

Next. I gave both of mine as presents. LOL To the Grandparents to be. Seriously. My mom thought it was awesome. She was super excited to find out she was gonna be Gma again, and again.

We do have pictures of the positives too. The first one I'm holding the second one our son is holding. (if he had only known then what it meant bwahahaha).

Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am embarssed to say I saved all of them..

***ICK ALERT******

Even my very first one with DS1.. it wasn't the + - kind it was pee on this litmus paper looking thing & if it turns blue, you're pregnant..

I saved it & it's taped in DS1 baby book ..

I now know it is sooo gross but I struggled with infertility for 9 years with my Ex husband & to see a pregnancy test soooo positive ( it was DARK blue) I had to save it

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Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep, I saved mine (from both of my sons with my 1st H, and for a long time the positive stick with XWH - but I still don't know if it was a false positive or I miscarried). I dont' know what happened to the latter one - I think the others are in their newborn memory boxes. They had caps, and they're in ziplock bags so I'm not icked by them.

Here's one for you - did anyone else save the tiny umbilical bit after it fell off? Yep, I did.

Me, BS Him WS early 40's at the start, cheated before and after cancer diagnosis.
Two A's, two OW's, online looking for sex partners, two false R's.
Threw him out in January 2009.
Divorce final March 30th, 2010

XWH died Dec. 2010

Posts: 4104 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: New Jersey
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Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep. Saved both umbilical bits.

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Default  Posted: 1:58 PM, April 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yup...5 years of infertility and multiple miscarriages...I saved them.

me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17

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Posts: 4187 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
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Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, April 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I saved the umbilical cord bits too. And all the baby teeth.

D-Day: 6/5/09, drunken ONS on business trip, confessed immediately, transparent, remorseful but emotionally clueless
M 11 years, 3 kids
4/12 Tried to R for 3 years, have decided to D
12/31/12 D final

Posts: 542 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: PacNW
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Default  Posted: 8:09 PM, April 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Kept it (for my only child).

Kept the umbilical cord.

Plan on keeping all the teeth... maybe even having a necklace made.

She's my only baby!!

BS- me.
FWS- him.
DDay 6/07 (immediately separated)
RDay 8/07
OC born 3/08
OC Adopted 2014


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