Over two months ago he emailed her again. We all ready had a plan for that. She forwarded it directly to me.
She wrote a NC letter, very direct, to the point. Haven't heard anything since.
We have been closer than ever. We talk about all our feelings. I don't hold anything back about how I feel, I'm very open.
I realize we have long way to go also, and we are trying our best. She is also doing everything it takes.
I still have times when I feel pretty bad, but I'm happy to say on Monday I didn't think about A all day at work. Which is huge for me!!!
I want to say best wishes for everyone going through this, also.
It does get better with time.