My ex wouldn't leave the house and ultimately we lost it because he couldn't make the payments. Still to this day, I hear about how I ruined his life and the loss of the house is OF COURSE, my fault.
I would never say someone is destined to never get the messages we (as betrayed spouses) tried to give, but I will say that for those that don't, you will forever hear about how bad you turned their life upside down and they will always push the blame for everything on us.
I wish I could have done the NC thing but didn't know how at the time.
You keep steady and continue posting on here; especially in those weak moments when you think you need to communicate with him.
Hugs to you!!!!Divorced 05/11/11 -
2kids - 20 and 22 (Thank God for them)
Too many Ddays to count. Enough said!