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 tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 6:55 PM on Friday, April 5th, 2013

This is the end of my spring break. Been very nice and relaxing!

Today Teslet and I are heading out to a play therapy appt and then we will do a 'date' night. This involves visiting the book store, saying 'no' about a billion times to everything that Teslet must have, and hitting our favorite frozen yogurt place.

Tomorrow is supposed to be nice, so I think I'll get out and start tackling the garden. Wish me luck on that, I let it go last year and it's really, really over-run with weeds and god knows what else. Sigh.

Sunday is grading and tearing down the epic fort that I've let Teslet have in my living room for the last couple of days. Can't wait till it's a little warmer and I can toss up a tent outside for him to play in.

What's going on in your neck of the woods?

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 7:10 PM on Friday, April 5th, 2013

Crashing with some friends this weekend. Meeting them for happy hour tonight and I'm sure there will be some eating involved.

Trying out Body Pump at the Y tomorrow morning. Bright and early - 7:30. I may not be back here again.

Then I hear there is some BB on tomorrow afternoon and we'll probably do that along with some lake country bar hopping.

Sunday I'll hit Weight Watchers for my weigh-in then off to church then to meet up with other friends for Bloody Mary's.

Sheesh...looks like I'll be doing quite a bit of drinking this weekend.

AJ's MOM

Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34

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nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 7:14 PM on Friday, April 5th, 2013

Tonight my dds and I are just relaxing. I told them we could go to the fancy supermarket in the next town over that has a big selection of to go foods and we can each get what we want for dinner.

Tomorrow I have a baby shower. The mom to be is my sister's best friend. Get this - she married my ex's nephew! So several of my former in-laws will be there. I do miss them, so it will be good seeing them.

Sunday I may take my dds to the local library for a craft time.

Other than that, I hope to be able to get outside a little, or maybe a lot this weekend. It's finally getting somewhat warm!!

Me - happy!
2 DDs

Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.

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Newlease ( member #7767) posted at 8:43 PM on Friday, April 5th, 2013

Tonight I have a planning meeting with my high school reunion committee - 35 years this year.

Tomorrow I have a charity event from 9 - 12:30, a pedicure with my DIL and son's GF at 3:00, and then picking up my grandchildren so my son & DIL can have a date night.

Sunday - all the housework that won't get done tomorrow.

Weekends go by so fast!

NL

Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

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k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 8:45 PM on Friday, April 5th, 2013

Started off the weekend by hopping in the car and trying out a new diner with a friend.

Tomorrow is a tack swap I'm going to with a different friend, then working the lights for a performance at our local Performing Arts Theater.

Sunday is stay-at-home-and-try-to-avoid-becoming-a-sloth day. Maybe I'll go riding if the weather is somewhat decent.

But I "know" Spring is here because I took my 1984 GT Mustang out of storage and drove it.

k9

BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

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KeepOnMovin ( member #38245) posted at 8:52 PM on Friday, April 5th, 2013

Tonight going to see Nelly in concert. Yeah, the East St. Louis rapper. No, I don't listen to rap, and couldn't pick him (or her?) out of a lineup, but hey, I was invited so why not? Should make for some interesting people watching

Tomorrow a 25k trail race.

Sunday is DS11's birthday party. STBX and her family will be there. I am confident I can put my feelings aside for DS11's special day. But being around her and her family is going to be tough. Wish me luck!!!

Me: Creating a better life for myself
Her: Somebody else's problem
Married: 22 years
2 sons at home
1 son in college
Divorced on 9/4/14!
Often it's the deepest pain which empowers you to grow into your highest self.

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Survivor3512 ( member #37946) posted at 8:59 PM on Friday, April 5th, 2013

Tonight I'm just hanging out around the house. Maybe watch some of the shows accumulating on my DVR. Tomorrow is shopping, dinner, and a movie with my mom and sister. Sunday is church and lunch with my family. Probably laundry and some cleaning. Then my kiddos come back to me! Yay!

Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

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Bebba1171 ( member #33857) posted at 11:11 PM on Friday, April 5th, 2013

Getting ready to mow the yard, then go practice golf. Quiet night at home after that.

Tomorrow morning I will walk my dogs and then likely get my ass kicked on the golf course since I have not played but one round this year

SO is coming over in the afternoon to help me with the bathroom remodel I am planning, watch basketball, go over a friends house, and then out to eat.

Sunday morning we will walk the dogs, go to Church, go out to breakfast and then to the assisted living place with my dogs.

Teslet and I need to play. I made a fort in my den last night to play in with my dogs.

Time to start having fun - have a great weekend!

[This message edited by Bebba1171 at 5:12 PM, April 5th (Friday)]

Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 54Me) / XWW 52
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

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Luvlyla ( member #38692) posted at 11:35 PM on Friday, April 5th, 2013

I hate weekends now. for a few months i didnt, i liked the space, and we would only be watching a movie or out with his looser friends anyway, but now im bored, and want that other body on the sofa to talk to through a movie. :(

I'm only miserable cs i got ditched by a mate, it wasnt really firm plans, and shes going through a D so i can see why she preferred a party night out than a wine night in with kids playing around.

on the otherhand, i have deep cleaned my entire house including painting the entire downstairs - woodwork and varnishing included!!

so that feels nice and i probably deserve the early night for that.

yay for the positive side of the coin *forced grin^

[This message edited by Luvlyla at 5:35 PM, April 5th (Friday)]

When he's your Romeo,
and you're not his Juliet,
it means you are Rosaline
- and you survive the play.

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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 12:42 AM on Saturday, April 6th, 2013

House of Pies for dinner; now relaxing on the landing with SI for a while, then my book.

Tomorrow am is bodypump then...nothing. Sunday is nothing...then spinning in the evening.

I hope to get down to the beach at some point.

Very, very quiet here...

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 12:46 AM on Saturday, April 6th, 2013

Tonight, just hanging out at home. Tomorrow, a haircut, then nothing else planned.

Sunday, nothing planned yet, but I'm sure something will come up.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 12:54 AM on Saturday, April 6th, 2013

Same as Williesmom, word for word!

It's supposed to {{shudder}} snow {{shudder}} here, anywhere from 3-10 inches depending on which forecast you listen to. I am SO over winter.

College basketball and reading on the agenda, and the usual housework.

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 1:15 AM on Saturday, April 6th, 2013

Today is DD's 22nd Birthday but she's working so not sure I'll see her.

Tomorrow is a "debauchery cruise" with friends and then tomorrow night we have in improv show at our theatre so I'll be here to make sure everything runs smoothly.

Sunday will be laundry and probably moving the rest of my clothes into the guest room.

Monday is SAWH's bday. I'm going to ignore it and try very very hard not to check his phone for texts from ExWOW. Because it is no longer my business.

Wishing you all a wonderful weekend!

If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

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travels ( member #20334) posted at 1:24 AM on Saturday, April 6th, 2013

A whole lot of nothing tonight.

Tomorrow, I'm not sure yet. Possibly shopping for my niece's baby shower. Possibly lunch or dinner with a friend.

Sunday, checking papers, doing lesson plans and possibly visiting the city taco truck.

The dog doesn't know it yet, but he is getting a bath at some point this weekend. I swear he can sense when one is coming.

[This message edited by travels at 7:24 PM, April 5th (Friday)]

When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.
"After a breakup, the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship."

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phmh ( member #34146) posted at 1:37 AM on Saturday, April 6th, 2013

Tonight I'm relaxing as much as possible and trying to stay off my legs and go to bed early.

Tomorrow I have a marathon in the morning. Looks like it will rain :( That will be pretty unpleasant, so I'm hoping the rain holds off until the afternoon! Then I will be doing lots of relaxing and will have some celebratory fancy beer (they are already chilling in my fridge!)

Sunday I may go for a short run in the morning, or I may sleep in and just do yoga. Haven't decided. Possibly meeting some friends for brunch -- depends on how lazy I feel. I also have to go grocery shopping for the week and get some other life responsibilities out of the way.

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny

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I.will.survive ( member #34677) posted at 2:02 AM on Saturday, April 6th, 2013

Tonight was supposed to be game night with my little man, but he ended up sick to his stomach and I cleaned the house. Not exactly the Friday night we wanted!

Tomorrow redeems itself, hopefully because I have a date! 2nd meeting with this guy to hike near my house.

We've texted a ton and talked a couple of times after meeting earlier this week.

Hope some fireworks spark because I'm overdue for that loving feeling.

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exhausted lady ( member #30217) posted at 2:34 AM on Saturday, April 6th, 2013

Spring cleaning....hot tub....more spring cleaning (parents)....hot tub. Lather, rinse, and repeat.

Ugh...but thank God for the hot tub. I think I'm going to have some sore muscles over the next couple of weeks.

Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr

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badcsm ( new member #18394) posted at 2:45 AM on Saturday, April 6th, 2013

Well I tured 78 today and this weekend make 1255 freefall. Looking forward to it.

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h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 9:25 PM on Sunday, April 7th, 2013

I had no plans so I decided to go exploring.

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