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User Topic: Photos - to delete or not to delete?
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Default  Posted: 9:01 AM, April 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't done anything with the pictures just yet but i plan to sit down one night with a bottle of wine and go through them all and put them on a flash drive or something. I'll keep a few here or there, especially if they have DS in them, but most of them will be gone. I'll give the drive to DS when he gets older and he can decide what he wants to do with it all.


D-Day: 8/27/12
Me: BBF (29)
WXGF: Confused26 (27) EA/PA with xBF, lasted almost a year. TT, blameshifting, gaslighting, & broken NC for 10 months.
DS: 3
Together 5 years

Ding dong, the bitch is gone! Settling into the life of a single dad.

Posts: 317 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: New England
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Default  Posted: 4:54 PM, April 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No kids here (thank God), so I ditched any photo with him in it. If my beloved dog was in the photo, I simply cut the rat bastard out.

I'm almost six years out, and I do not regret it a bit. He can go fu*k himself.

"To keep the body in good health is a duty... otherwise we shall not be able to keep our mind strong and clear."

Posts: 681 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: southeast
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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, April 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I kept my wedding photos but have destroyed just about everything else. Every pic of him, every pic of her --gone. There is no need to keep a record of that time in my life on film, unfortunately my memory works way too well...

S, Filed 4/17/14--YAY, ME!!

Posts: 512 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: New York
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Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, April 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just started the process. I'm going to download any photos of her and kids and put them on one CD to save for the kids. Then delete them off my computer. Photos of her in the house have been gone since she left. Any pictures I find in drawers of her I tear up and throw out.

I do have all the scrap books she made when she wasn't running around drunk and being a whore. Those I will keep for the kids. She will come asking for them, but she will not get them. That's a little justice for me.

BH me 46
WW her 38
DDay 8-17-12
2 kids (12, 9)
Filed for D 9/14/12
Divorced 4/17/13
She - engaged 5/13 married 9/13

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