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User Topic: Thoughts on turning 50 and my NB
CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, April 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!

I turn 50 this year also. I know I will be OK. This sadness won't last. I am fine being alone. Where I live there aren't a lot of decent single men in my age group, so I don't see myself in a relationship again. But I'm really and truly OK with that. I was never going to get married again after Pigfucker and yet I did.

Life is full of surprises.

((HUGS)) to you ALL!


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1037 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
better4me
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, April 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3209 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
BrokenSpirit50
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, April 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SadMad2012 Happy Birthday! Thank you for the inspirational post. You go girl!


Me BS 54
Him WH 55
M 32 yrs - together 40 yrs
Kids 0
D-Day 12-18-11 (WH didn't want to R)
Divorced 6-21-12 Done!

If the grass is greener on the other side....water your own lawn.


Posts: 239 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Midwest
Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, April 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks again, everyone.

As I was re-reading the posts, I noticed k94ever's tagline....

Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

This ^^^^^^^^!!!!!! This is what I did! Man, it was hard....some hurt lingers, occasionally.....but I believe love and happiness (as well as bitterness and hatred) are choices. I chose happiness as my goal.

And on to 51!


I'm Happy, not Sad!

Posts: 1174 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
shyguy
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Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, April 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is nifty being fifty! happy birthday. Things really do get better.


Love stinks yeah yeah(J. Geils)

Posts: 5866 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: tulsa
permanentpain
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Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, April 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

happy birthday! absolutely loved this post


Me: 32 y/o, student and mom of two of the best kids in the world
Him: 33 y/o scumbag
Divorcing
Feels good to start laughing and feeling better again...

Posts: 270 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Island
ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, April 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!! Great post!!!


Me: BW (55)
Him: WH (62)
7/14/11 - Divorced

Posts: 1873 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: another world
Markone
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Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, April 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!
I turn 50 in a month and by then I'll be in my new apartment. Must say I'm a little scared about both so thanks for the inspiration.


DD 11/28/10
Me (BH)
Her (WS)
Separated and filed (7/13)

Posts: 413 | Registered: Dec 2010
HappilyUnMarried
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Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, April 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday! I have 5 months left of my 40s and then I join you.

Here's to 50! My life is 100% better now than 40.


True happiness comes from within, not from someone else.† Donít make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy

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