Topic: Thoughts on turning 50 and my NB
Member # 33581
| Posted: 2:16 PM, April 7th (Sunday), 2013|
I turn 50 this year also. I know I will be OK. This sadness won't last. I am fine being alone. Where I live there aren't a lot of decent single men in my age group, so I don't see myself in a relationship again. But I'm really and truly OK with that. I was never going to get married again after Pigfucker and yet I did.
Life is full of surprises.
((HUGS)) to you ALL!
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
Posts: 878 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
Member # 30341
| Posted: 5:09 PM, April 7th (Sunday), 2013|
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Posts: 2750 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Member # 34485
| Posted: 5:42 PM, April 7th (Sunday), 2013|
SadMad2012 Happy Birthday! Thank you for the inspirational post. You go girl!
Me BS 54
Him WH 55
M 32 yrs - together 40 yrs
D-Day 12-18-11 (WH didn't want to R)
Divorced 6-21-12 Done!
If the grass is greener on the other side....water your own lawn.
Posts: 235 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Midwest
|Grace and Flowers|
Member # 34431
| Posted: 9:58 PM, April 7th (Sunday), 2013|
Thanks again, everyone.
As I was re-reading the posts, I noticed k94ever's tagline....
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
This ^^^^^^^^!!!!!! This is what I did! Man, it was hard....some hurt lingers, occasionally.....but I believe love and happiness (as well as bitterness and hatred) are choices. I chose happiness as my goal.
And on to 51!
I'm Happy, not Sad!
Posts: 1098 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
Member # 18281
| Posted: 5:27 PM, April 8th (Monday), 2013|
It is nifty being fifty! happy birthday. Things really do get better.
Love stinks yeah yeah(J. Geils)
Posts: 5866 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: tulsa
Member # 38312
| Posted: 5:40 PM, April 8th (Monday), 2013|
happy birthday! absolutely loved this post
Me: 32 y/o, student and mom of two of the best kids in the world
Him: 33 y/o scumbag
Feels good to start laughing and feeling better again...
Posts: 270 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Island
Member # 26367
| Posted: 6:21 PM, April 8th (Monday), 2013|
Happy Birthday!! Great post!!!
Me: BW (54)
Him: WH (61)
7/14/11 - Divorced
Posts: 1712 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: another world
Member # 30291
| Posted: 6:29 PM, April 8th (Monday), 2013|
I turn 50 in a month and by then I'll be in my new apartment. Must say I'm a little scared about both so thanks for the inspiration.
Separated and filed (7/13)
Posts: 400 | Registered: Dec 2010
Member # 21299
| Posted: 6:50 PM, April 8th (Monday), 2013|
Happy Birthday! I have 5 months left of my 40s and then I join you.
Here's to 50! My life is 100% better now than 40.
True happiness comes from within, not from someone else.† Donít make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy
Posts: 1291 | Registered: Oct 2008
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