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User Topic: This is a new low for my stbx
MichelleRenee
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Default  Posted: 10:04 AM, April 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Since D-day he has been staying at a friend's during the week and I leave on weekends. Well today he is saying he can no longer stay there and he wants me to get out of the house now. I do plan to give him the house (multiple reasons) but I do not plan to leave until my 16 yr old finishes his 10th grade year at the end of May. Why the hell should I yank a kid out of school at the end of the year? He has an IEP, social anxiety, aspergers, and major depression. He is already going through this divorce turmoil and has to change schools when we move. And this STBX a-hole wants me to take him out now with less than 2 months left. I cannot stand this man. Funny how less than 3 weeks ago we were "happily" married. How can he even pretend to care about my son when he is trying to force us out?


Me - 37
lying cheating a-hole - 36
kids - 17,12,10
D-day 3/25/2013
Filed for divorce 3/26/2013

Posts: 66 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Chatsworth, Ca
lonelylost
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Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, April 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FTG. Why should your son suffer because of jerk face. How selfish he is!!!!

My son suffers with depression, anxiety, and is in IEP too, I know what you are going through. It is hard enough just being a teen, but when you have to struggle with more, it's debilitating. I try my best to help him but sometimes I can't fix things.

And it doesn't help when the Xwh is a turd! Do they ever think about anyone but themselves. No, I guess.


Divorced Jan 2013

"Don't look back, the road is long."
- Needtobreathe


Posts: 209 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: IL
lonelylost
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Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, April 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stay strong....you're a good mom! Don't let him get the house!!!!


Divorced Jan 2013

"Don't look back, the road is long."
- Needtobreathe


Posts: 209 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: IL
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, April 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think it's time to lawyer up.. and let you lawyer file the paperwork that says you stay until the end of the school year.

Anticipate a lot of new lows as long as he is suffering from cranial-rectal inversion.

Good luck,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5090 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Happydays
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Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, April 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ask him to give it in writing. Probably that will stop him for a while.


BH 33
FWW 32
DS: 3 year old.
Dday 10/14/2012
No remorse so:
Divorced 02/15/2013. No alimony, no CS, got apartment. Won all battles and mind games off the courts.

Posts: 294 | Registered: Mar 2013
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, April 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"That's nice, Dear" is how you reply. And then go on about your business fully ignoring him. You don't even owe him the courtesy of a reply.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9673 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
realitybites
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, April 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You just say no. Period.

Let him dance around and figure it out.


Posts: 5652 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: florida
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, April 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wouldn't leave this weekend if I were you. He may lock you out. Talk to a lawyer, before the weekend. CYA


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5488 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
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