No worries mate- of course I was going to reply. I should be working instead I'm reading and reading and typing and typing some more! I just had a wobble but I'm alright now!
The wife's mate said the thing about reacting too- they've been best friends since they were babies! she said don't react because she'll think I'm going to make a big deal out of it and that's her nightmare- her mate said when she tells her something even if it would normally shocking she just listens and nods- it seems to work- they're like sisters! It's different for girlies though.
It is definitely upsetting not being spoken to about shit and when they go into their shells I don't think they realise how hurtful it is.
I regret how I dealt with that vote shit and what I do now and loads of other stuff- I was joking along and now some of my mates think she must be that type of bird- she isn't. My wife is definitely not easy as fucked up as it sounds after recent events!!
At lunch today I said something I wished I hadn't- I can't stop myself from making a joke out of stuff. I ended up having to say to her "I didn't mean that".
She replied to my text btw- with "blah blah blah"- I know it's avoiding and not good really but it properly settled me down a bit. She was being humourous and it was the best case scenario for today. She's so sad and withdrawn, if she does anything funny it cheers me up!!
I don't know about you but I can't take deep drawn out discussions every single day. It might be different for me because it's one way- only me talking probably doesn't warrant 'discussion'!
I hope she isn't getting a hard time on the "other side" though. I have a feeling she hasn't been inventive with her username and I think I saw it pop up... She must have commented on someones post! Not looking though- I want it to be the right way. She might recognise me as "idiot" though haha!!