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User Topic: He is delusional!
Zamas
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, April 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So we've begun the process of breaking down all the bills, switching things to his name, my name, etc. Today he called up directv to see about moving the account to his place and I would start my own account in my name. He has the NERVE to call me up afterwards asking to please let him keep it in his name for the next few weeks because if he moves it to his temporary apartment now, then they will charge him a few hundred dollars to move it again when he moves in with OW. I believe he put it like, "I would move it to my place now, but then what am I going to do when I move in with her? They will charge me moving fees." LIKE THAT IS MY GODDAMNED PROBLEM. FTG.


Me- SAHM 30yo BS
Him- 32yo WS
Three kids, 9, 7, 10mo

Their baby was born in Sept and they are happily househunting. He finally left 4/03.


Posts: 80 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: New Jersey
permanentpain
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Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, April 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOW!! Idiocy at its best. FTG


Me: 32 y/o, student and mom of two of the best kids in the world
Him: 33 y/o scumbag
Divorcing
Feels good to start laughing and feeling better again...

Posts: 270 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Island
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:30 PM, April 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24372 | Registered: Aug 2011
Zamas
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Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, April 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Seriously. He's been out of the house for a week and expects me to work with him and make this easy for him. All I want is for him to STFU and give me my money. I don't want to deal with him anymore, I'm even considering giving the kids their own phones so they can talk to him directly and vice versa so I can get some space.


Me- SAHM 30yo BS
Him- 32yo WS
Three kids, 9, 7, 10mo

Their baby was born in Sept and they are happily househunting. He finally left 4/03.


Posts: 80 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: New Jersey
LadyQ
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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, April 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We had a similar issue with cell phones. He "offered" to keep me on his plan, but changed the password so I no longer had access. I said not so much, bought a plan with another company and ported my number over. His tough shit as far as I'm concerned. I'd get service in your own name if I was you!


Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

Posts: 1650 | Registered: Jul 2011
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, April 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good grief. It's delusional week on the S/D board, apparently. When he called you, did you speak to him, or did he leave a message? If he left a message, switch the name on the account and then tell him, "Aw, shucks. I didn't get your message in time, and I already switched it." Let him pay the fee. It will hopefully be just the beginning of what he has to pay for (in more ways than one).

FTG to all the delusional types!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3537 | Registered: Oct 2011
Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, April 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, he should learn sooner rather later that the cost of a whore adds up.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

❣I hope my issues don't discourage ur healing. I've buried a lot & my WH hasn't done his part in R❣


Posts: 10982 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Limbo
dmari
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, April 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The things that come out of WS's mouths. Unbelievable!! Sorry you had to hear that bullshit! Cancel his account and start an account in your name ... asap!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Mediation date: 7/10/14 and 7/22/14
Final final court date: Oct 2014

Posts: 2109 | Registered: Oct 2012
Skan
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Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, April 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holly-Isis, you owe me a new keyboard. The poor thing can function thru so many spit-takes. You were reading my mind!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4550 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, April 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

At least he didn't just start turning things off like the Dooosh did here- you'd come home and there is NO cable. Then, your cell phone is off! Next thing you know, your car insurance bill doubles because he removed himself and you no longer have the multiple car discount- ugh!

I say switch it. It is no longer your job to fix his problems.


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3514 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
Zamas
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Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, April 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No he's already been pulling that crap. My car got repo'd yesterday bc he's apparently not been paying the bill, I just had to pay a ton of cash to get directv turned back on, and the phone and Internet are still turned off bc it would eat up the rest of my cash. My phone is still on but only bc it's on his plan and he will have to pay a bunch of money to cancel my line and break the contract. He's been screwing me over in every way he can think of. He dropped off a car for me to use (he has a car service) but there is no insurance on it and here in NJ that's automatic loss of license for one year so it's the same ad not having a car.


Me- SAHM 30yo BS
Him- 32yo WS
Three kids, 9, 7, 10mo

Their baby was born in Sept and they are happily househunting. He finally left 4/03.


Posts: 80 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: New Jersey
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