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 gonnabe2016 (original poster member #34823) posted at 2:01 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013

The hourly rate for Sultan's L is 2X what I pay mine....AND his L is an hour away, which means any time the guy has to come here for meetings or whatever, he's being paid 2 hours worth of time JUST for driving.

And....wait for it......

Sultan is complaining about our massive attorney fees. (the only credit I can give him for letting that complaint loose on me is that I had just sent him a text informing him of the amount that we were going to have to pay for our taxes....he was probably in shock.)

But still....really, dude?

SMH

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

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FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 2:05 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013

You should change your ringtone for him to the sound of a toilet flushing.

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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dmari ( member #37215) posted at 2:34 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013

I have a huuuuuge smile on my face!!

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ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 2:46 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013

Ha Ha. I hear this one too. How much I'm costing him in attorney's fees, and how he keeps having to give his L more.. Well fuckhead, if you weren't on your third financial affidavit and still missing your pension plan on there, you might not have wasted so much of their time and your money.

These morons must blame us for everything huh? Do they really never take responsibility for their own actions?? Siiiiigh

xBW~ 40
Two DS~ 15 and 11

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cayc ( member #21964) posted at 3:41 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013

No. No credit. None. If that POS could keep his penis in his pants, there would be no 2x lawyer fees. FTG.

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tesla ( member #34697) posted at 3:43 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013

That guy is fucking stupid.

...huh, I think that sentence can be read on a couple of levels...

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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 gonnabe2016 (original poster member #34823) posted at 3:44 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013

if you weren't on your third financial affidavit and still missing your pension plan on there

OMG, right?

My L is very conscientious and diligent, yet also cost-conscious. She didn't make Sultan go through a formal *discovery* process. In order to save time and money, she just sent a letter to his L that asked for the docs. I don't know what was going on, but apparently Sultan wasn't getting all of the info where it needed to be and so my L was giving his L frequent *reminders*. Then, in turn, his L would contact HIM about it.

That resulted in a text from him that said something about telling my attorney to stop sending his attorney correspondence because it probably costs us $xxx everytime the request goes out.

And then he went on to say that we are sharing the L expenses and she knows it.

Then I pointed out that he was getting us ripped off.

He said "My attorney doesnt keep filling up the hours with pointless memos"

(oh, just fyi...^^^that exchange wasn't recent, it happened in mid-Feb.)

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

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ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 4:48 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013

I hear you gonna, believe me.

I even took most of the paperwork when I left, so I was the one who provided everything that was joint. I know I handled most of the finances when we were together, but c'mon dude, it's not rocket science. Sorry I'm not able to provide your bank statements and retirement information for you.

It's actually quite funny to see him struggle so hard over a few statements.

But not as funny as

That guy is fucking stupid.

...huh, I think that sentence can be read on a couple of levels...

You are the best Tesla.

xBW~ 40
Two DS~ 15 and 11

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