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Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, April 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I completely agree with EVERYTHING you have said. Now I just need to decide if all this info is to much for me. The major things that I think may be too much are
1. No condoms = risking himself therefore me with std's and her with possible pregnancy
2. He admitted that the first night in Vegas she said to him "you don't have to do this, your married" and he replied "that's okay"
3. The fact that he has been still lying to me the last 3 months no matter how "good" his intentions were. He called her behind my back to "calm" her down which to do so meant he was stabbing me in the heart again and telling her nice things.
4 He admitted he told her he loved her but says it felt wrong when he said it and he didn't mean it.
I was having a hard enough time getting over all the other details, phone calls, texts, pics, gifts, sex etc. I don't think I have enough left in me to do this again. But I do love him, I always will.


Me: BS 33
Him: WS 36
OW: 40 from Texas
Married 10yrs
3 DD's ages 4, 7, 9
D-day new years eve 2013
2 month PA and EA with OW from Texas

Reconciling


Posts: 40 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
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Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, April 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. I am so sorry that you found yourself here. This is one of those head spinning stories that I say to myself "there are some sick mother fuckers out there". The thing about the children is insane, and the fact that this was ok for all of the adults involved leaves me speechless.

I wish you and your husband all the luck, and I feel for your children, your friend, and the other BH. The WS' involved need some serious counseling.


"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

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