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User Topic: Seriously Dude?
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I still have work to do on healing emotionally from the physical abuse from others.


Thank you. A big reason that emotionally this is where I am today, is due to all the support on SI.

Sometimes, I just need to vent.




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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IMHO, as long as the relationship/friendship is beneficial to you, and not just something you feel obligated to maintain because of a shared past, maintain it. Once it stops benefiting you though, that's when I think most of us would agree to put some distance. It doesn't sound like you've hit that point.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree, Ama.

I think starting a thread in NB should count as part of my NB.

[This message edited by jo2love at 12:26 PM, April 16th (Tuesday)]




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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:18 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think starting a thread in NB should count as part of my NB

I agree. Well done, jo!


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jo, is this your first NB thread? Exciting!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 4:16 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Big eyerolls to xwbf.

Dude, get the net!!!

Big huge hugs to you jo. You're such a loving, amazing, wonderful person. You must teach me how to let "idiot" bounce off as gracefully as you do.


For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jo, is this your first NB thread?

Yep, first one. Not sure why I waited this long.


Dude, get the net!!!




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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's not just about dating, you know.

(do I need to bump my favorite thread????)


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't start threads often.

Sure. Thank you.

[This message edited by jo2love at 7:14 PM, April 16th (Tuesday)]




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