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User Topic: Oh, No! Explosions at the Boston Marathon
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was something we learned in Britain during the years of IRA bombings.
That was exactly what I was thinking about earlier, neh. That we are now like London (England) having bombings anywhere anytime.
They'll get more info from a live perpetrator.
Thats true TR, but I was thinking more along the lines that since 2 are dead (so far) I would trade a dead bomber to have one of the innocent victims alive, kwim?


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Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

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"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 8947 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope it's all right to post this.

I was just on my Twitter feed. I wanted to share in case any one is looking for someone.

"If you're looking for someone call: 617-635-4500"

Google also set up a person finder.


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Posts: 5348 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My sister's partner is on call at Mass General. She told my sister that things are pretty bad there. :(

[This message edited by h0peless at 4:58 PM, April 15th (Monday)]


Posts: 1316 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This was on FB:

BOSTON: We're here at Make Shift Boston at 549 Columbus Ave. and ready to open our doors to anyone who needs anything: water, phone, internet, bathroom, a place to sit down, or anything else we can help with. Stay safe everyone and please send friends our way if we can be helpful.

Appears to be a community service organization.


I promise to surround myself with amazing souls and love them fiercely.

Posts: 19154 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
Bobbi_sue
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Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


My daughter and her H live in that area. I heard from her and she is okay.

But she was in Virginia Tech, in the next building down during that massacre on April 16th, 2007. It just makes me sick with worry.

[This message edited by Bobbi_sue at 5:23 PM, April 15th (Monday)]


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Laura28
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Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HUGS and Prayers from Oz

Laura


Married 30yrs Me BW 57Yrs Him FWH 59yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA til dday).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

Posts: 2726 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't get through to a friend of mine. She has medical issues and goes out to Mass General from time to time. I hope she's not there today.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
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Posts: 5348 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
cryingdaily
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Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Xena, a brother-in-law and a friend all National Guard at the marathon for security. Two nephews, both Boston cops on duty. All ok.

I have no words to express how I feel right now.


Me: BS 48
Him: Doesn't matter any more.
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Posts: 14367 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: Massachusetts
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sad... Cat I hope you are OK and can get home.


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Celebrating 60 years on Earth

Posts: 16613 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh cd.. I love your beautiful city I am so sorry for your worry and hurt. Sending love to your family and friends.
I hope we here from Cat again soon.
I know cell service had been cut off in the area and public transit is likely down so I am sure Cat is having a hard time getting home



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SBB
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you all my thoughts and prayers. Stay safe everyone.


Sending all of the love and strength I can muster to Phoenix1 and her family.
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Posts: 4511 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's awful. My sister in law was running today, and I thought my brother might be at the finish line waiting for her, along with her family. I called his cel and it went right to vm so I freaked. Thankfully he was at home, and my SIL was 2.5 miles from the finish line.


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Posts: 2490 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 6:10 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad to hear your family is ok, cd.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
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Posts: 5348 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
positively4thst
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Default  Posted: 6:18 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thoughts and prayers to all on this horrific day.

Here is another resource to either post that you are safe or to check for a loved one.

http://www.redcross.org/find-help/contact-family/register-safe-listing


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Boston friends)))

I'm glad you are all hearing that your friends and families are safe.

My heart is so heavy right now.


Take up your space (and do it well).

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Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am home safely. The city is in quite a stir. Loads of street closures, huge police presence. Tragic beyond belief.


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D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
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Posts: 29470 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((((Cat)))))))))
I'm so sorry What a horrible horrible thing this is.



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peridot
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Default  Posted: 6:32 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad everyone is okay so far.

I wonder if there is still a threat or if they are just being cautious. I heard on the world news that people are being told to stay away from large groups in Boston.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG. One of the dead was only 8 years old


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S 10/2012
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Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad everyone who had people in the area have learned they're okay. Cat, hope you will make it home all right.

I was another one who thought of 9/11. Hopefully once things settle down, no one gets a hair up their ass and starts blaming the organizers for what happened - like they blamed the builders of the towers when they collapsed.

As far as casualties, I've heard two dead, over 100 injured. I also saw the little biy in the wheelchair. He looked to be about my GSs age. I was thinking "My God, he can't be more than 7 years old!"

Prayers going out to all of Boston.


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