Topic: Great newsletter read. Hope it helps
Member # 38866
| Posted: 6:24 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013|
BS me 48
Him 45 NPD/SA fucktard
M 20 yr T 24
DD#1 Jan 12
DD#2 Aug 12 LTA/PA with pond scum
Divorce, yes please
Shoot me down but I wont fall.
I am Titanium
Posts: 84 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
Member # 8271
| Posted: 7:05 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013|
Good article. I think she explains well what we try to emphasize on SI every day.
20 yrs. old, single, naive, thoughtless, but not deliberately hurtful.
OW#2 05/2010- 07/2010
44 yrs.old, married bitch in heat who acted like a whore and got treated like one.
Posts: 3534 | Registered: Sep 2005
Member # 37630
| Posted: 10:49 AM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013|
Nice article. Very similar to what is said and emphasized on SI each and every day.
A must for all BSs to read.
BBF-turned-BH: 28 (Me)
WGF-turned-WW: 28 (EmotionalFool)
POS1: a 'friend'? WW believed it was my 'best friend'!
POS2: her senior at work!
Together - 6 years
Married - 1.5 years
Don't know where we are headed..
Posts: 276 | Registered: Nov 2012
♀ New Member
Member # 39006
| Posted: 3:30 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013|
Thanks for this, this is a near perfect description of what i and those around me have said. My WS accepts it was his responsibility, but 2 weeks from dday i want to know all the hows and whys, the time for healing has me scared i wont have the energy as my whole world has just crashed.
3 kids, 13,8,6
Posts: 25 | Registered: Apr 2013
Member # 38958
| Posted: 3:44 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013|
I really needed this today. Thank you for posting the link.
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R and taking small steps
"He is a fool then. He had a diamond and chose glass. "
Posts: 202 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
Member # 21925
| Posted: 3:56 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013|
the betrayed spouse struggles for ongoing years
If the ws doesnt quit blaming you and not take complete 100% ownership of the A, the bs, nor the marriage, will heal. I think that is why we get stuck in limbo.
And for JFO, give it 6 months, but if you are not seeing ownership, cut bait and move on.
BS 43 (me)
Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo
Posts: 983 | Registered: Dec 2008
Member # 28997
| Posted: 4:14 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013|
Married 30yrs Me BW 57Yrs Him FWH 59yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted. Believed him.
Dday May 28 2010. Found out all in 3 weeks:
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA until dday).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing...
Posts: 2613 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
Member # 34047
| Posted: 11:50 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013|
That was so good to read. I'm one of those who had a wonderful marriage and family before the affair. One night after she had decided to leave, I reminded her of how infatuated she was with me 24 yrs earlier. She said that it was different, that when she met me, she know I would be a good husband and father and her exact words were "and you have been, but this is different." I did get her to admit she was just bad on about three different occasions though.
DDay January 2010
Divorced July 2010...broke up 2 families
Contented single dad of 2 grown sons and two daughters.
XW talks to kids about once a year
Posts: 54 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Southwest
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