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User Topic: XWife is a thorn in my side
mysticmoons
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, April 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I found out through a mutual friend that the night after WBF moved out his XWife was calling him trying to get him to come up to the bar where she was to hook him up with her slutty friend. Shes a complete Bitch!


Me: 39 BGF
Him: 45 WBF
DD#1 02/06/13 Found 6 months of texts between him and my friend
DD#2 03/14/13 Found texting between him and a 24 year old he met at his gig
DD#3 03/17/13 confessed to BJ from bar SLUT
DD#4 03/18/13 Had sex 2X with bar SLUT

Posts: 27 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: mysticmoons
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Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, April 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What was your WBF's response?


You are not dealing with rational people or situations. Normal thought processes won't work...story of my life.

Me- BW, 28
Him- fWh, 34
Mostly R'd, minus a few scars...bought a house and got a puppy...And baby makes 3! She arrived August


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mysticmoons
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Default  Posted: 9:34 AM, April 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He told her no
She kept calling him trying to convince him, then she dialed his number again and tried handing the phone to the mutual friend. The mutual friend told her no, that she was my friend and she wasnt going to get involved.


Me: 39 BGF
Him: 45 WBF
DD#1 02/06/13 Found 6 months of texts between him and my friend
DD#2 03/14/13 Found texting between him and a 24 year old he met at his gig
DD#3 03/17/13 confessed to BJ from bar SLUT
DD#4 03/18/13 Had sex 2X with bar SLUT

Posts: 27 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: mysticmoons
Skan
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Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, April 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, if he is still hopeing to do the work to be able to come back to you, he needs to block the XWs phone number from his phone and go total NC with her. If he has kids, he needs to tell her NC except for child-related items, and hang up every time she calls without a legitimate reason. Or use one of those on-line schedulers for the child-related matters.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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UndecidedinMA
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Default  Posted: 4:36 PM, April 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do they have children together? That will make it tougher.

I know all about crazy exWs. Read my profile.

If no kids then block her everywhere, phone, email return any mail she sends. Then when she starts borrowing friends phones to call, start blocking them as well. The longer he interacts with her the more she will push.

I would say if he will not go NC with her then you should run in the opposite direction.


ME - BSO
Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R

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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, April 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think some people are just born with parts missing...like a SOUL!

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mysticmoons
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Default  Posted: 11:27 AM, April 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, he has 3 kids with her. Two are in their 20s and a 16 year old that lives with her. We talked about this last night, I said that she should not be calling him for any other reason than their daughter. He agreed, and said that if she does call again trying her shit, that he will tell her that him and I are working on our relationship and that if she is not calling about something to do with their daughter then dont call. The bad thing is, he is in a band with xwifes boyfriend. This has always been a big problem for me, but I have dealt with it. He has been friends with her boyfriend before he married her, and has been in a band off and on through the years with this friend. He tells me that he is going to quit this band as soon as he can, he has 2 more gigs on the schedule. So, I am waiting to see if he is serious because I cannot deal with this any longer and I shouldnt have to. He has a gig next weekend and the bitch will be there, I thought about not going at first but I decided that I am stronger than that and that would be like her winning so I am going! I have invited several of my friends to go because I didnt want to show up alone and I just know that that bitch is going to try to screw with me any way that she can. I know that their wont be anything physical like a fight because I will keep my distance for sure. I know I would lose, Im 5'3 and 110 lbs, she is a fucking fat sow. I am expecting her to invite the AP and the Xfriend, just to fuck with me. She is friends with both of them, and she is an evil bitch. I am dreading next Saturday but I have good friiends for support and I totally expect WBF to ignore her games and be attentive to me...he better not let me down!


Me: 39 BGF
Him: 45 WBF
DD#1 02/06/13 Found 6 months of texts between him and my friend
DD#2 03/14/13 Found texting between him and a 24 year old he met at his gig
DD#3 03/17/13 confessed to BJ from bar SLUT
DD#4 03/18/13 Had sex 2X with bar SLUT

Posts: 27 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: mysticmoons
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