Big hugs to you Very Heartbroken. I am not too squishy either but I can read in your posts that you are really hurting and just trying to keep it together.
We are all been where you are now, been down that road. We know the pratfalls and just want to give you the best advice because we care.
We know it hurts
I know that you did not want to use your son as a pawn, but that is basically what happened.
We fall down...we get up.
Learn from this. Stay classy and keep your head up and you will know that you have done everything in your power for your son to be the best man he can be...Your WXF, not so much.
By taking the high road you will have a better chance of getting what you want when you go to CS court.
Stay classy VHB, you will sleep better at night.
Take Care.WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.