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User Topic: I did it!!!!
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Impressive!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9522 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
cmego
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Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

you rock.


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4112 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:18 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. You are my hero. That is soooo awesome!!!


It is better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie. -Russian Proverb

Posts: 17048 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 6:19 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great job Tesla. Now that you aer skilled in swing-set building you are welcome to come to Ga and teach me how!


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3406 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow...is all I can say. if you did that, you can do just about anything.


Dont get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.

Posts: 2644 | Registered: Jan 2010
phmh
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Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great job, tesla. So proud and happy for you!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


Posts: 3315 | Registered: Dec 2011
timeforchange
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Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I looked at your photos and can almost imagine your grown up son one day in the future saying my mom was always there for me and even built the play structure alone for me.

You doing that Is an act of love and pretty symbolic of your dedication to Telset.


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.


Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone! I'm so proud of myself. My hands and upper body are KILLING me...but so worth it.

Teslet had a hard time coming home but as we walked into the house I told him that I needed him to test some stuff out for me. He was so happy checking everything out. He looked at the roof and said, "wow that rough looks hard." I told him it was pretty hard to build it. He says, "yeah, you could have broken your body making it."


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4610 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is the coolest playhouse! I'm so glad you didn't break your body making it!


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1794 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great job!

Posts: 1656 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My hat is off to you!! Amazing work getting that together!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2589 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Super awesome!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3573 | Registered: Oct 2011
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You rock, Tesla! That is so awesome!


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7802 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
persevere
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Default  Posted: 11:04 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All I can say is that I am in AWE of your greatness lady!!! OMG!!!! WTFG!!!!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4468 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
disillusioned12
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Default  Posted: 11:09 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are a rock star!!!


BS (Me)
WS (STBXH)
Married 2 yrs; Together 6 yrs

D-Day 11/14/12
EA(PA?)
Limbo 1 month
False R 2 months.
Status: Divorce on hold


Posts: 228 | Registered: Nov 2012
LeftBehind08
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Default  Posted: 11:22 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Way to go! Great work! So friendvious of your talent!!!


Sometimes it's lonely, Sometimes it's only me & the shadows that fill this room...
But it's a great day to be alive & the sun still shines when I close my eyes ~Travis Tritt

Posts: 77 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Washington
dmari
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Default  Posted: 12:13 AM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG!!! You totally have to share this with our gang at S/D!! Love it!! I want one too!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2146 | Registered: Oct 2012
5454real
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Default  Posted: 12:25 AM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AYFKM? What is there that you can't do if you set your mind to it? Great Job.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2725 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
clralb
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Default  Posted: 2:17 AM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! Rock on, Tesla!


BS Divorced.

They were right about you.


Posts: 676 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: southeast
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 6:19 AM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

woohoo! Well done Tesla.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

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