Also, I just so happened to actually look at the balance when I got cash out a couple times this month, about 2 weeks apart, and of course I already knew he was up to something shady with the money, but holy hell did the difference in those two balances prove that! I haven't worried much about it, because I have a million other things on my plate and I knew my lawyer would handle it eventually, but it looks like it's time to get that ball rolling.
He's a piece of...work.
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
What an idiot.
ETA: Confused posted at the same time, but yeah...basically the same train of thought!
[This message edited by GabyBaby at 2:23 PM, April 22nd (Monday)]
DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs
I edit often for clarity.
which is why he would really prefer for that particular image to stay amongst himself and his belongings....you included.
i'm so glad you have someone there to help you and comfort you. i know exactly how you feel. believe it or not, my xILs came and saved christmas right after dday. XHs mom & dad made him do all kinds of chores and fix-its. they embarrassed him with all the stuff they found neglected. their help was a godsend.
[This message edited by stretch13 at 2:53 PM, April 22nd (Monday)]
life must be rich and full of loving--it's no good otherwise, no good at all, for anyone - j. kerouac
And what a snake. Trying to score some brownie points while depleting your bank account.. FTG.. Definitely time to get the ball rolling..