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User Topic: Tonight I don't want to be
turned123
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Angry  Posted: 8:35 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Alone! I don't want to drop the kids at their moms so they can sit there alone! I don't want to be a divorced dad! I don't want to date! I don't want it all!

That is all


me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids

Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((turned123)))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4818 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Survivor3512
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Turned))) I'm so sorry. I know just how you feel. It's really hard sometimes. We're here to listen.


Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

Posts: 293 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Southeastern U.S.
turned123
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Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I truly am better off with out the day to day toxic environment the exww provided so well but I'm sad today that my kids had to leave my house tonight to go sit alone at their mothers. She sucks! I'm just tired and grumpy today so my discipline suffers. Then the fuck her!! Comes out! Ugh! Soo not me!


me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids

Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((turned)))

I'm sorry. I hope tomorrow is a better day. Sending you strength.


Posts: 33700 | Registered: Mar 2011
turned123
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks gang! I love the sunrise!! Nothing has gone wrong yet tomorrow will be better! Praying for a good night sleep!!


me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids

Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee
gogirl
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Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs to you turned123.

I know the feeling, but you have a wonderful attitude and that will get you through. That, and time, the dreaded word.

Sleep can be very difficult sometimes. I too hope you have a good night.


It's never too late to live happily ever after.


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Mousse242
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She's not there with the kids? How old are they?

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mariusa
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I understand the feeling. So hard sometimes to keep the chin up.
i don't know what to say to help but i hear ya!!


BS(me)45 now 48, WH (POS)45 now 48
M 24trs, DD14, DS15
POS OW - then 24, now doesn't matter
D-day 1/2/07, Divorced 11/13/08
ôLive without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending."

Posts: 2058 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: NY
turned123
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Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

14,10&10. They are left alone often at their moms as she can't figure out the right thing to do is adjust your schedule around them not just do what you want when! They are safe. I don't mine leaving them alone ounce in awhile but it's a regular thing with her.


me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids

Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee
BrokenSpirit50
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Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Turned123, Arrgghhh, I'm sorry your XWW is a wench. Your kids are old enough to figure her deal out.

At least you have us SIers hanging with you. Hoping the sun rises for you tomorrow morning and its a beautiful day...Hmmm I don't think that is in our weather forecast. Oh well.


Me BS 54
Him WH 55
M 32 yrs - together 40 yrs
Kids 0
D-Day 12-18-11 (WH didn't want to R)
Divorced 6-21-12 Done!

If the grass is greener on the other side....water your own lawn.


Posts: 239 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Midwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((turned123)))


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16265 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are you divorced?

I got in my papers that I have the first right of refusal if they are going to be left with someone or alone for more than 4 hours I get to have them.

If you are D, maybe you can see about getting it added to your decree.


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 1948 | Registered: Jan 2012
turned123
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Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep divorced a few years now. Mostly life is good. At times I just get frustrated as this isn't the life I wanted for these children! I love them and envisioned soo much more for them! I will make do with what I have. Tomorrow is another day. I will use it as an opportunity to make a difference in their lives as well as at work. Tonight though I'm just ticked! Double ugh!


me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids

Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee
okaynow
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Default  Posted: 10:42 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((turned123)))


Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
D-day: 2/18/07.
1 child
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.

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