Does a WS go off the deep end and there is no end? Once you cross that line, does that mean there are no lines anymore at all?
From my experience, yes and yes.
My WH was also very much into the cyber/texting affairs and lots of people have seen his junk. Check out the Cyber Cheating in ICR forum and it might help. You are NOT alone.
I believe with a remorseful WS the lines can be re-drawn.
Very much agreed!
Hang in there.
**Edit for correction. Man, I don't need to post before at least finishing my first cup of coffee. When will I learn!
[This message edited by HeartInADustpan at 7:55 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday)]
I say at least because I dont know if I asked the right questions, you guys know what I mean. I am at that stage that if I dont asked the right specific question, I have no answers.
This does not sit well with me. Do you mean he won't tell you anything unless you ask specific questions? Why won't he tell you everything?
Both had DDays and TT
Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.
Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.