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User Topic: Waiting....
Notgwen
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Default  Posted: 6:47 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Anyone else feel like they are waiting for "the other shoe to drop?"
I find that I cannot be "happy" because I'm just waiting for the next thing to pop up and show me he is still lying.
Does this get better????


Me: 44
WH: 50
D day 03.20.13
Married 25 years.
4 children; 6 between us

Posts: 32 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Pa
HURTAGAIN1981
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Default  Posted: 7:15 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi, I know how you are feeling. I know my partner has been up to something and still is. I am now waiting for an opportunity to check his phone. I am 99% sure I will find damning evidence.

Posts: 296 | Registered: Mar 2012
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes I think we all feel that way, esp at the beginning or if the Wayward remains in the fog. It takes a very long time for that trust to build up again, that is human nature. You don't want to allow yourself to be hurt that badly again.

(((( and strength ))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8211 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
HeartInADustpan
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Daily for the first few months. Now, I only get the occasional pang. It does get better, just very slowly.

(((hugs))

Hang in there.


Just call me Heart. :)
Reconciling
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain

Posts: 379 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
Notgwen
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Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And...he is replacing his cell phone today or tomorrow so my anxiety is back.
Wow, I love this!!!!


Me: 44
WH: 50
D day 03.20.13
Married 25 years.
4 children; 6 between us

Posts: 32 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Pa
Chefj9
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Everyday, "you're not alone". I have nothing to base it on.... Just feel like that's the story of my life.


ME - BS 49, Him - WS 46 trying to "R"
4 DD's - blended 25, 15, 15 and 12
Multi DDays the grand finale 5/13/2013
From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that's it, that's all I'm intere

Posts: 470 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Texas
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